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Old 02-12-2005, 10:39 PM   #1
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A teacher is picking on my kid!

My middle daughter is in 6th grade. I e-mailed all of her teachers last month about our vacation (on V-Day). Everyone was fine, but a couple of teachers didn't respond.
One of them was her Science teacher. Well, the teacher has been picking on her lately. They have a group project to work on in the next 4 weeks. Some kids are assigned to turn theirs in earlier than others. DD was told that hers was due on the 21st. She told the teacher that she wasn't going to be here for that, and that she was leaving in 2 days. She won't have any time to meet with her partners.
The teacher's response? "I know you're supposed to be in Florida. Guess you'll just have to stay home or get an F."

The kid can't help when I scheduled our trip! And, there are other teams that are being given until next month to get their projects in! DD could have worked on hers AFTER we got back, and met with her partners then. Not only is she being punished (which I'm willing to accept to some extent- we ARE taking her out of school), but her partners are being punished also.

By the way, the school is on break most of that time. The kids will only miss 2 days.

I have e-mailed the school administration, and requested a meeting with the teacher after we get back. All this stuff happened yesterday, no time to talk to anyone about it before we leave.
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I think the best thing to do is meet with the teacher face to face. I can see where the teacher stands (kind of) where he/she assigned something and set a due date but to single one person/group out after giving others an extension on the project or just a longer period of time to work on it (compared to others) doesn't seem right. Seems like EVERYONE'S project should be due at the same time!!!

Also, for the teacher to say something like that . . . that could have been handled in a different way!!! Like, "I am sorry. That is the date I assigned the project to be due." --- or even better, "Well, we'll see what we can do about getting your project in a little later . . . it's due on the 28th now."

Sorry you're having to deal with that right before a vacation!!! That stinks!!! There always has to be one Scrooge in every bunch, though and unfortunately, it looks like the Science teacher is it this time!!!

Hope it gets resolved in the end

. . . and have a great time on your trip!!!
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Old 02-13-2005, 12:36 AM   #3
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I am so sorry! Being a former Science Teacher I know it can be upsetting at times when students are gone. However, it is a fact of life and the teacher should not take it out on the student. I can't imagine that if you talk with the teacher yourself that something can't get worked out. I would say just talk with the teacher directly or go thru the counselor. Is there a way to leave the teacher a voice mail?

Also, to play devil's advocate: I know at times that things that I said were taken out of context or blown out of proportion or changed by the time the student got home. Maybe what was said wasn't nearly that bad but got filtered in a different way. When we are already nervous about things it can change our perception.

That being said if the teacher doesn't want to work with you or still tries to fail your daughter then I say move her to a different class if that is an option. Good luck! It totally stinks for a child to have to worry about a grade on a vacation that is out of their control!
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Also, for the teacher to say something like that . . . that could have been handled in a different way!!! Like, "I am sorry. That is the date I assigned the project to be due." --- or even better, "Well, we'll see what we can do about getting your project in a little later . . . it's due on the 28th now."

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That is really what upset me. I am willing to accept that there are things the kids will miss. And work that will be turned in late, so I don't mind a lesser grade. It just seems like she is punishing DD's partners and DD for MY decision.
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What a rotten mind game for the teacher to use on your child. A later turn-in date and lower grade could've been mentioned but an F or stay home? That's really harsh!! My parents were both teachers so we NEVER missed a day of school for vacation, but as an adult myself, I feel life is too short, take the opportunities you have and enjoy your time with your family!!

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Definitely sounds like a meeting face to face with the teacher is in order. I hope it all gets worked out
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Grrrr....this irritates me to no end!

Does your school have a make-up policy? We give the student 2 days for every day they were absent. It does not matter if the absence was from illness or vacation. These 2 days must also be added on to the amount of time a student had to work on a project. So for example, a child has a long-term assignment that takes 20 days. If the child was absent 2 days during that time, the student would have 4 extra days to complete the assignement, so he or she would actually have 24 days to work on the assignment. If the assignment was a group assignment the whole group would have an extra 4 days.

If your school has a make-up policy then the teacher must follow it, no matter what!

Don't worry about the assignment - there are more important things in life then a science project. Just have fun!
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Wow Teresa I hope you get it all sorted out when you get back! Sounds like someone is overstepping their bounds

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I hope you get a face to face with the teacher and you can come to a satisfactory resolution.
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Don't worry about the assignment - there are more important things in life then a science project. Just have fun!

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That is why <u>YOU</u> are a fantastic teacher, Robin!!! I couldn't agree with you more &amp; fortunately our School district has that same philosophy ( &amp; policy) I have NEVER had a teacher or administrator question when I take my kids out of school for Disney NOR have they ever penalized my kids for missing..

I agree everyone.. a face to face is in order &amp; make sure admin is there as well..

Let us know what happens but in the meantime.. HAVE GREAT TRIP &amp; don't worry about school until you get back!!
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Hope it's resolved adequately when you get back. Have a great time on your trip and don't worry about this until you get back!!!
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