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Old 08-28-2003, 07:57 PM   #1
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How long was your engagement?

How much did you spend on the special day?
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Old 08-28-2003, 08:13 PM   #2
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My engagement was 8 mos. and I really have no idea how much it cost my parents; BUT I recently heard from a friend that a mutual friend of ours' wedding last summer cost $250,000! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] It was amazing, though, and frankly I'm surprised that # isn't higher...
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Old 08-28-2003, 08:49 PM   #3
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Our engagement was 5 months...engaged end of January married end of June. The total bill was somewhere between $20,000 and $30,000. But in my opinion, it was priceless. [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]
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We were engaged for 3 years and 1 month. We had a long engagement because I was 18 and DS was 17 when he popped the question. I don't have a clue how much my wedding cost. I do know that my gown was $350 (on clearance) and that most gowns at that time cost $800.
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Old 08-28-2003, 09:44 PM   #5
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We were engaged Christmas Eve and married 12 years ago on Oct. 12, so roughly 10 months. We had about 150 people and the reception cost somewhere around $7500 and the whole wedding was around $12000. I really did a lot of shopping around for everything and got recommendations from friends and relatives. For example, my Brother-in-law's brother is a semi-professional photographer and he gave me a great rate on pictures and albums. A neighbor owned a limo company and my friends cousin owned a florist shop.
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We knew within 2 months of meeting that we would be married, but didn't make it official till about 8 months later. We were married 5 months later. I really don't know how much the wedding cost us, but I know it wasn't too much.
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Well, let me think... We were engaged for 3 yrs before we were married. Long engagement, yes. He was in the military and didn't want me to be a military wife. Our wedding cost 3,000, we did everything ourselves and paid for it as well. I wanted to get married in WDW, but we just didn't have the $$$. We want to renew our vows at WDW sometime in the future.
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We got engaged the summer between our junior and senior years of college and were ultimately engaged for 22 long months. I honestly have no clue what was spent on the wedding though, as her parents picked up the tab thank goodness!
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Met, engaged 3 months later, then married 5 months after that. Been married for 23 years now. Cost of wedding was around $3500. Nice, simple, but pretty!
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We got engaged in August 1998 and were married in November 1999. I don't know how much the day cost in total, as my parents paid for some of it, but I'm guessing around £10,000 - £12,000.
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We dated for about a year, then I broke off the relationship for about two years. Then Paul contacted me and we got back together. We dated for six more months, moved in together, and eloped five months later. A year after that we got married again with the big shebang for everyone. Paul says "for our next wedding, let's go to Vegas and get married by an Elvis impersonator." Sounds good to me! LOL
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Engagement was 15 months. I think the whole wedding cost around $15,000, plus another $4500 for the honeymoon.
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We were engaged for 5 months (after a 6 year courtship, I didn't want to wait any longer than I already had! [img]images/icons/tongue.gif[/img] )

I'm not sure how much the wedding cost (parents footed the bill), but I do know that we got a discount on the reception, because it was the off-season. Also, I got my dress for $99, at one of those end-of-season-clearance events.
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Got engaged end of July or first of August. I honestly don't remember when and neither does he. We were married in October. My mother and I recently discussed how much the reception cost and neither of us have an idea. She asked friends to make salads. Another friend of her's made the wedding cake as our wedding present. The most expensive part was the pictures and they were over $600 in 1975. I'm guessing maybe $2000 or less.
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We were engaged after dating a month and a day (although he did the official, down on one knee proposal about a month and a half later (in February) because I made him wait so my friends wouldn't think i was crazy!)...we married that August.
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