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Old 12-17-2013, 09:02 PM   #1
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Need to vent...really bad day...

The day started out as a snow day for DD--OK, that's fine, it was to be a Christmas baking/wrapping day--really low key. DH was supposed to go to a Christmas party overnight with some vendors from work. Then he calls me at 9:30, from his cell phone, (which he never does while he's at work) to tell me he is on his way home, he was fired. What?? He is a VP of IT at his company, with a complete jerk for a boss. He was planning on looking for a new position in the new year anyway, but this was completely unexpected. Poor DH is devastated--he hasn't been out of work (thank God) in 27 years. He had a well-paying position, we have 1 in college and 1 in a private HS. Our oldest, fortunately, just graduated from college last week and already has a job waiting for her. I love my job, but it is part-time and doesn't pay very well, so all I see right now are dollar signs. We are ok for the next few months because of severance, but who knows how long this will take in this economy? I feel really bad for DH. So much of how he identifies himself has to do with what he does (which makes me crazy sometimes, but that's another post)...

If anyone knows a good executive IT recruiter in the NY Tri-state area, please let me know.

Sorry to have rambled, but thanks for listening!
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Old 12-17-2013, 09:35 PM   #4
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First thing to do is not to panic. IT is a good field to be in even in a bad economy. Try and relax over the holidays and just make his job in the new year "Finding a Job". I bet something comes about in no time. And look at the bright side - I be the next boss won't be a jerk.
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Old 12-17-2013, 09:49 PM   #5
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Well, that was a pretty crappy day. You've got some good pluses there: your graduate having a job waiting and your DH being in a great field.
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You're right. It's a bad day, but others have mentioned the pluses. Try to focus on those. Best wishes that your hubby finds an even better position in short order.

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I'm so sorry to hear that. How awful!
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Your husband is probably better off. What kind of a jerk fires someone the week before Christmas? Sending lots of pixies that he finds a better job, with a better boss, with a better salary. Try to let it go and enjoy your holidays. At least he'll be there to help with all the holiday prep now, right?
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I have a couple of client's who are in the IT field and have done well looking for work. It is also understanding that there is a lot of contract work out there-no benefits, but it pays the bills.
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I am so sorry and angry at a boss who behaves like a Scrooge. I truly hope your DH does have a long job search, finding a great position with a great boss.
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