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Old 07-20-2003, 10:10 AM   #1
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maybe you picked the wrong profession?! [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img] I am so sad this weekend, you guys! I won't go into the depressing details, but I really thought after Friday, the weekend couldn't get any worse. Boy, was I wrong!! This has been such a bad weekend for me, I am not sure that I was meant to be a nurse. I love my job, but I feel kind of powerless over certain circumstances and like I should be able to do something for a patient when I truly cannot. I don't usually feel sorry for myself, but this weekend, I feel like maybe I should go sell flowers. [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img]

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Old 07-20-2003, 10:23 AM   #2
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hang in there! we need people like you. if you didn't care, you shouldn't be a nurse anyway. we've all dealt with bad ones. i can't imagine how tough it must be to do what you do. if it didn't affect you, i'd question your humanity. just know that you provide an incredible service to your patients. there's good and bad days at any profession. you get to see people at their happiest moments as well as their saddest. it must be quite an emotional rollercoaster, and i admire you for being able to do it. hopefully, some really good days are just around the corner to help things look a little sunnier. [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
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Old 07-20-2003, 10:24 AM   #3
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Aww Tara don't feel upset! Somethings you can't control, even if you know you should. It's all part of having a job! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

Hope you feel better!

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I can only imagine how tough the tough days must be as a nurse. Deffinitely puts the "tough days" in my office into perspective. Not so tough after all. Like ariel1 said, thanks for doing the job you do. Takes a special person.
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Old 07-20-2003, 11:36 AM   #5
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i realized after i posted earlier that i might have assumed it was just the hardship of seeing people in difficult situations that was getting to you when in fact, it might be something else. i have several friends in different areas of the medical profession. it's hard these days with insurance issues, understaffing/overworking, malpractce fears, etc. if that's the type frustration you're dealing with, keep in mind the reason you decided on your chosen profession. most likely it was along the lines of helping people. remember that at the end of the day you have accompished that. you had to deal with other stuff that had nothing to do with why you chose nursing in the first place, but you made a difference in someone's life everyday you showed up at work. not everyone can go home with that sort of satisfaction. i hope this is just a passing dissatisfaction you're experiencing, but if you truly are reconsidering a career change, it's never too late. do what makes you happy.
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Old 07-20-2003, 11:43 AM   #6
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Oh Tara,

I've always admired people who are in the medical profession including you Nurse Tara

You see it all on a daily basis and I am so thankful there are people like yourself when I really need it.

Here's hoping tomorrow will be the start to a better week.

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Tara,

I think we all get to this point from time to time but it just shows how much you care about what you do. I wish you had been with me when I was having my babies! [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

I hope things go better when you go back in.
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I'm so sorry that you have had such a tough few days. From the way you post you must be a great nurse. Even if you don't think you've helped your patients I'm sure you have. Cheering you up pixie dust being sent your way.

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Tara, I know EXACTLY how you feel! Sometimes things happen and no matter how hard we try or want to change things, we just can't...

Right now I am on a "nursing break" & can actually say that I am enoying a NON-STRESS job as a part-time/on-call Cont. Ed Secretary. (I also at times get to fill in as nurse [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] ) However, I do miss my patients & the money (was much easier saving up for Disney vacations when nursing). I laugh at current co-workers when they say how stressful this job is... they have no idea [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] !

I love nursing but for right now "I" needed the break! Sending you loads of Pixie Dust in hopes that it will help out your situation. [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
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Tara honey hang in there! I always think about quitting my job and then I go to work and something special happens and it makes all the good outweigh the bad. Just think about what you will be doing in September!
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Oh my gosh, you guys!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] You are all awesome!! How could anyone be in a bad mood with you people around?!?! [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img] Thank you for your support and kind words! YOU GUYS ROCK!!

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Old 07-20-2003, 06:59 PM   #12
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Tara I am glad today is much better. I have to say that I cannot even imagine you depressed. I am wracking my brain and unable to come up with that mental picture.

Just remember that we all think you're great the next time this happens.
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Gald to hear today was better Tara!

I tip my hat to you, I know that I couldnt be a Labor delivery nurse...no way no how..couldnt do pediatrics or ER....stick me with the old folks please. I can handle sick elderly much better than sick young'uns....its a little lighter on the heart strings.

I do know the powerless feeling all to well, and it isnt pritty....I loose sleep over things alot, infact I expect to be posting here till the wee hours tonight as a matter of fact! I will lie awake tonight and think about what I need to do for who tomorrow.

I also know that if I can make one patient smile or laugh throughout the course of my shift, I am doing alright.

You Tara, were meant to be a nurse.
We are not perfect, we are not able to move mountains, we cant possibly do it all, chances are good that our supervisor is the antichrist and glued to her chair....but with one touch, one smile,and some brain power mixed with heart felt concern...we are DAMN good!
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Tara, I am so thankful for people like you. I can't even imagine how stressful your job must be. It takes a very special, kind person to be a nurse and you definately fit the bill! Thank you for all that you do. I'm glad that your job was better today!

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