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Old 03-14-2012, 06:28 PM   #1
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Kids clubs on the Dream/Fantasy

Quick question to all of you. Regarding the ages of the clubs. I have 2 daughters, who on our next cruise (thanksgiving 2013) will be 8 1/2 and 11 and 3 months. We are also cruising with people we met on the thanksgiving 2010 cruise, and our oldest has become good friends with their daughter, who is 10. They don't see each other except on video chats, etc. My question is will my oldest be able to be in he same kids club as her, or are the age groupings strict/absolute? I thought from my prior cruises they were guidelines, but I am hearing conflicting reports. Not only will my oldest prefer to be with her friend, she would rather be in the lab as opposed to the 11-14 year old club.

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They have really been sticking to the rules lately as far as the ages in the kids clubs, so I wouldn't plan on the kids jumping groups until you get onboard and hear from a kids club cast member that it would be ok. You may get conflicting reports from different cast members if you call and you don't want to tell the kids they'll be able to be together if they won't. This has been really wishy-washy lately. They policies have recently been strongly enforced, at least on the Disney Dream.
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Yeah, that is one thing that my son didn't like. He was 9 yrs old and turning 10 in 2 mths and they wouldn't allow him to go up to the next level. He did not enjoy the kids club at all and that was a down fall-too young for him.. We didn't keep our kids in it much.
I love love love the security. They couldn't find my son, so we kept looking at the computer and the GPS and soon we were able to find him, tucked away.
Disney needs to look at this part of it. I heard the same thing from dh cousin who went on the cruise re her kids. Let's face it, we want our kids to be happy so we can have less fussing and if they aren't happy in the kids club, it is difficult on us.
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The Oceaneer Club/Oceaneer Lab covers ages 3-10. A nine-year-old just short of 10 would still have 14 months to go before being qualified to be in Vibe, the tweens program - that's too great an age gap. I don't think there's any practical way for Disney to address that. If they did, everyone would be an "exception," and that's a tough way to run a safe program.

They have the same issues any school district has. Our children are in their care, and if something bad happens, they're at fault. When you have Disney's reputation for family-friendly entertainment, and billions of dollars are at stake, they can't afford to take the same risks we might take with our own children, and they certainly can't appear to take greater risks than we'd take.

So, for example, maybe your 13-year-old daughter would prefer to be in Edge (ages 14-17), rather than hang out with 11-year-olds. However, in general, 13-year-old girls and 17-year-old boys are not a good mix.

Similarly, Disney has to look at things like average height for an age group, and what happens when kids of significantly different sizes play sports together (which are some of the activities offered). Maybe your 9-year-old is as big as a typical 12-year-old, but probably not. If your peewee football league at home is set-up with different divisions for ages 8-10 and 11-12, it's rare to see a 9-year-old playing
with the 11-12 group.

Meantime, back when Oceaneer Club and Oceaneer Lab were totally separate programs, with no mixing at all, there were lots of complaints that siblings were often separated. They removed the 11- and 12-year-olds from the program to narrow the age spread, and allowed all 3- to 10-year-olds to mix, though they still have 5 different age "tracks" within that - kids can choose whatever activities on those tracks they wish, and play independently with anyone they wish within the 3-10 group.

I don't think you'll find another cruise line that does a better job of trying to give the kids something to do so their parents can do their own thing. There are lines where all the teens do at night is hang out in the lobby outside the casino (for some inexplicable reason, they also put the arcade right next to the casino entrance). There are lines that operate their program on limited hours unless a certain number of kids are on board, and it's really rare to see all-day and all-evening programming for all ages between 0 and 17.

Disney's program may not be perfectly tuned to ours (and our kids) personal preferences - how can it be, when we all have different parenting styles and kids who are unique individuals? Too few sports for kids who do nothing but sports, too much sports for kids who'd rather be reading or playing Nintendo. Kids who push to be treated like adults, others who feel intimidated by older kids. About all we, or Disney, can do is hire private tutors and nannies for each kid, so each gets exactly what they want and need.
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Now I'm concerned...my oldest will two boys will be 11 years 1 month and 9 years 1 month when we cruise. They are best friends, and brothers... I know they will not go two separate ways...

And I get the reasoning- I have a masters in education, child psych, taught middle school and have children lol . But, I know my boys will not participate without the other.

All is ok, I guess my 5 will be hanging together with us, just like everyday and every trip
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It doesn't have to be a club vs. no club situation at all. While in your case your boys might not want to spend all their time hanging in the clubs, each may find specific activities that appeal to them. So, maybe they spend an hour or two in the club each day, the rest with the family.

The nice thing about a cruise, regardless of age, is that it's easy for folks to go their own way for an hour or so, then reunite. You do some "together" stuff, some "me" stuff, some "me and you" stuff... and unlike a theme park, nobody's going to get lost in the crowd or be difficult to track down.
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When I called, she asked which ship I'll be on. Then she looked up and said that my 11 year old will be able to go down to the club/lab, but that under no circumstances would the 10 year old be able to go up. Which is perfectly fine, as my 11 yo will want to be in the club/lab.


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We got off the Dream earlier this month. It's my understanding that while Disney is keeping fairly strict age limits in the clubs, I have heard that those kids who are "border-age" (i.e., 11 year olds) MAY be given a choice of which area - Club/Lab or the tweens group. However, I wouldn't EXPECT this to happen on any given cruise, but it may; and once the choice is made they cannot change.

Also, there are more "open house" times scheduled at each kids level where anyone may attend. While there may be specific programs (i.e. story time) offered during the open house, parents are responsible for the children not the CMs. Parents must attend the open house with their child(ren), but it is designed to allow younger/older kids a chance to experience the areas where they aren't officially linked.
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