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Old 11-09-2011, 10:37 AM   #1
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Need surprise advice

So we are going 2/11-2-18 which happens to be my daughters 17th birthday week. My husband wants to give it to the kids as a Christmas gift and I wanted to wait all the way up until a week before we leave.

I need surprise ideas, should I wait or should I give it to them on Christmas?

My kids are 16, 12, and 3 so if I tell them at Christmas I feel that ruins the surprise cause they have to wait for February to go?

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Old 11-09-2011, 10:51 AM   #2
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I don't think telling them at Christmas (as a Christmas gift) would ruin the surprise for a February trip. Infact, I think it would be a good idea, so that they can spend the following month+ helping with some planning or voicing their opinions (which they will want to do, especially the older 2). Them helping in the planning process might be a bit of a bonus gift and help bring out some of their independance.

As for your daughters birthday, if you want to get her a little surprise while you are there, get in touch with Betsy from Memories By Betsy. Her specialty is creating custom gift baskets which she will be able to help you come up with some great ideas. I just used her for a basket and flowers to help with my proposal to my now fiance on our recent trip last month. She was a real pleasure to work with and talk to and her prices are pretty reasonable (much cheaper than Disney Florist).
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I agree that using is at a Christmas surprise (present?) is the way to go.

It's especially important if your teen is going to be missing school, so that she knows it's coming up and can prepare for the time off (as well as informing teachers).
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CONGRATULATIONS on your engagement! Thank you for the great advise I am on her website now.
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I'd go with the Christmas surprise as well. Teens may need some time to get used to the idea and make some plans.
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CONGRATULATIONS on your engagement! Thank you for the great advise I am on her website now.
Thanks you. To give you an idea, the basket she made for me had a Jack and Sally doll sitting on top of one of those Mickey trick or treat bins, along with one of those light up ghost lanyard things (I wanted to really catch her off guard with the proposal so we went with a Halloween themed basket). Inside the trick or treat bin was a 5" glass slipper that she had etched with "Let's Live Happily Ever After". It couldn't have worked out more perfectly (except I had to tell my fiance to stop playing with the dolls and light up ghost because there was something else inside). The fall flower arrangement I had her get for me was beautiful and the flowers lasted the length of our trip and some made it back home with us. The basket cost about $165 (with $100 coming from the glass slipper), and the flowers ran an extra $50, which all included her fee and delivery.

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We're planning our 4th family trip the following week in Feb (2/21 - 2/25) and our two daughters do not know. I want to surprise them for Christmas as well. Not sure if I'll do the t-shirts (not too crazy about the color choices on the Disney store website) or maybe a new pin or lanyard announcing our upcoming trip. My girls are 9 & 12. So I'm thinking the 9 year old will be excited with a new autograph book and pen. She'll know for sure why she'll need then

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I'm with the others - I don't think telling them at Christmas would ruin the surprise for February. It'll give them something to look forward to after Christmas.
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I'm with you - I'd wait until about a week before, unless you see logistical, school, or emotional problems (my DD10 likes to know what's coming, so I'm giving her a 3-day warning rather than waking her up and getting on a plane).

That being said, it would take a lot of pressure off Christmas presents. We're going a couple weeks before Christmas, and I'm worried that a card under the tree that says, "Disney was your Christmas present" isn't gonna fly.
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If you children were younger I would say wait becuase they have no concept of time. But at their age they can have a countdown calendar and enjoy the anticipation of it.
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Ohhh! The countdown calendar is the best!!! For our first trip, we actually made a paper chain and hung it up on our fireplace mantel. Every morning, my DD9 would get up and take off another link. She loved it!!
With older kids, just having something on your computer desktop is enough to get me excited! Since our upcoming trip is still a secret . . .I can only see our countdown whenever I log into Passporters, after the girls have gone to bed!!! 3 months, 1 week and 3 days!!!!
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We will be going the first week of March and are planning to tell them at Christmas. I ordered the Mickey Ears hats online that are red and say "I'm Going to the Walt Disney World Resort" on them. I have one for each of us and will wrap them with a Disney Gift Card (part of their spending money) and we will all open them at the same time. I plan to have us all wear them while we are traveling to WDW.

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I'd surprise them at Christmas too! My son enjoys helping me select where to eat, what park to hit first. They'll have fun planning! And once you know the whats and where for each park they're interested in, you can order the free custom maps to come in the mail. And you can order a batch of pin for trading (I've gotten some great deals on Ebay) and they can sort thru those while counting down the days. For us, the planning and anticipation can be half the fun. But whichever way you work it..... It'll be magical! After all, how can you go wrong with Disney???
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