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Old 02-12-2011, 03:18 PM   #1
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TMI?? - a vent/rant/question

On FB, I am Friends with a couple (we're also friends in real life) who are married. They use FB as a communication tool between them sometimes. I think it's kind of cute - but now I know they're going away, that she's planned a weekend to "Knock your socks off" and they're dropping the kids off at grandma's. None of the posts are graphic, they're just suggestive.
Now, I love this couple and think they're great people, but I wish they'd learn to not do this. Some things are private and a small memo or actually TALKING to each other may be best.
Should I say something? No-one comments on their little "notes" to each other, so I wonder if they KNOW others can see them?
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Old 02-12-2011, 03:31 PM   #2
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I'm sure they know and I would not say anything.

While most people would not post that sort of thing/coversation via FB, including me- I would not say anything as they may be offended. JMO.
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It sounds like they're doing it to entertain those who follow them on FB. I would just ignore it. If no one comments on it, maybe the thrill will be over soon and they'll stop.
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I have old friends who do this. Sometimes, it's cute. Sometimes, it's creepy.

I just ignore it.
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My sister and her husband do this too and I am normally like *barf*
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Those who have to talk about it, probably aren't doing it. Especially if their mode of communication is through Face Book.

Either that or they have a voyeurism (sp??) fetish.

I say, pretend you don't know what they are talking about and ask a question, like "So, did you find your socks that got knocked off? Was it the cat that knocked them off?"

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I wouldn't say anything. It's their page and they can say what they want, just as others can choose not to read it or block it.
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My BFF and her husband do this sometime and it annoys me, as I know they are sitting next to each other while typing the messages. Sometimes, I like people overshare too much on FB.
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Maybe I'm missing something but I don't see anything suggestive about either of those posts. "Knocking your socks off" to me means they are planning to do something extraordinary, and I don't think there is a sexual connotation. Mythbusters even did a show on whether one could actually get socks knocked off. And depending on the age of the kids, leaving them with the grandparents may just mean they can get a meal together and talk without interruption and spilled food.

So I would not say anything. And if you don't like their posts, don't read them.
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Maybe I'm missing something but I don't see anything suggestive about either of those posts. "Knocking your socks off" to me means they are planning to do something extraordinary, and I don't think there is a sexual connotation. Mythbusters even did a show on whether one could actually get socks knocked off. And depending on the age of the kids, leaving them with the grandparents may just mean they can get a meal together and talk without interruption and spilled food.

So I would not say anything. And if you don't like their posts, don't read them.
I agree. They know what they are doing and that other's are reading their posts.
I would let it go and if it really bothers you, then I wouldn't read them anymore.
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Maybe I'm missing something but I don't see anything suggestive about either of those posts. "Knocking your socks off" to me means they are planning to do something extraordinary, and I don't think there is a sexual connotation. Mythbusters even did a show on whether one could actually get socks knocked off. And depending on the age of the kids, leaving them with the grandparents may just mean they can get a meal together and talk without interruption and spilled food.

So I would not say anything. And if you don't like their posts, don't read them.

This is my feeling as well.
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I see young people that I'm friends with on Facebook doing this. Sometimes I find it odd, but I don't say anything. I figure it's up to them.
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They're adults, they're married...maybe I'm not clear on all the details, but I'm pretty sure they're allowed to sass each other in public or private.

I post little love notes on my husband's fb page once in a while. Nothing salacious, but definitely sassy. I find it odd when couples completely ignore each other on facebook!
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I deleted my FB account, but there was a married couple I was FB friends with who constantly posted sexually suggestive stuff back and forth to one another. I mean, good for you, but I really don't need to know all of the details of what you like to do in the bedroom, mmmkay? I ended up hiding their posts.

At first I thought maybe they didn't realize what they were posting was showing up on all of their friends' walls and not just their own. Given the way they act in public, however, I'm going to say they knew exactly what they were doing.
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I deleted my FB account, but there was a married couple I was FB friends with who constantly posted sexually suggestive stuff back and forth to one another. I mean, good for you, but I really don't need to know all of the details of what you like to do in the bedroom, mmmkay?
That's what I'm trying to say. I edited (heavily) in my original post. One of the things I think that bothers me is that this couple makes a living teaching young children - and some of those kids (a lot of them) are this couple's FB friends.
I usually gloss over what they post, but at times, it gets a bit much.
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