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Old 12-11-2010, 06:22 PM   #1
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Bob & Sandy

A hard topic to talk about with out sounding disrespectful or blunt but here goes. It is no longer Bob & Sandy,it is just Bob and just Sandy. We were divorced in March. We are still friends. In-fact I spent Thanksgiving weekend with her and her parents. I was supposed to see her this weekend to get three Snapfish scrapbook she made of our two cruises and MVMCP. She is in the cities to see Hall&Oats Friday and got snowed in at the hotel. Doesn't think that is happening.

Well it is not just Bob. It is Bob and my two cats, Molly and Sophie. Leave that ornament alone Sophie.

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I am so sorry your marriage didn't work out. It's great you can still be friends. I don't think it's disrespectful at all to let people know. Better to be honest (and blunt if necessary) than have people wondering and coming up with their own ideas.

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Sorry to hear about the divorce. Its great the the two of you are still friendly and can cooperate in exchanging personal property. As a divorce attorney I find that many of my clients and their spouses refuse to cooperate in copying or otherwise reproducing family photo albums, movies, etc. That is so sad, especially when the photos are of their children.
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I think it´s great that you addressed the topic and equally great that you both are able to remain friends.
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I am very sorry to hear that you are no longer married. And I am sorry that Sandy doesn't post here much anymore. Hugs for both of you!!!
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I think you handled that very well, and not in any way disrespectfully.
Sorry about the marriage, but as you've unfortunately found out, sometimes things just don't work out.
It's great that you can both be friendly. People look at me oddly when I tell them I'm friends with my ex and his wife and we occasionally vacation together, even though the only child we share is now 27. We've had waitresses tell us it's weird!
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Thank you for posting this. My DBIL is going through a similar situation (his wife is leaving him in a trial separation (not sure she will come back). Of course, he feels that his life is over. We have tried to tell him that this may work out, or if not, he and his wife can still be friends. He doesn't think that will happen right now, but at least it shows him that it is possible.
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I'm sorry to hear about you and Sandy. Sorry, I haven't posted in a while and just remember meeting the two of you together out in Maple Grove, so I just assumed... It is nice that you still enjoy seeing each other and all.... Hope the cats aren't destroying the tree
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