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Old 10-10-2010, 10:56 AM   #1
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Family Frustrations! What would you do?

I am so upset! We are going to Disney in March to celebrate my graduation. I went back to school to get my administration degree and this is a way to celebrate that and I am missing Disney since I haven't been to the World since 06.

My girls are super excited as well. I have been saving for this trip for a while and almost have it paid in full! Well, normally grandma comes with us but she is unable to because of grandpa being sick. So I decided that since the money is saved that I would see if my aunt would go. I wanted to thank her for all she has done for me and am paying for everything but the airfare.

She was super excited and then the day that southwest opens their fares she says she just isn't sure she wants to spend the money on the ticket!!!!!
I understand money is tight but she has known for several months and said she would save the money. While she has been hemming and hawing the cost has gone up and she still hasn't decided.

I have no idea what to do. The SW fares are only about 150.00 (total) less than flying out of our normal airport and that is including having to pay for bags. Flying out of our local airport saves me 2 1/2 hours of driving and parking fees etc.

UGH!!!! How long would you wait for someone to make up their mind?
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Old 10-10-2010, 11:07 AM   #2
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I wouldn't wait for her. Get your tickets when you feel the price is right. If she decides to come, she can book her own airplane ticket. If she doesn't, then she doesn't. If you've paid for her ticket and dining plan, see if you can get that refunded to you. If you can't then use her dining credits for yourselves and save her park ticket for a future trip.
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I agree. I wouldn't wait. I would tell her you need to know within 24 hours and nicely explain why and then let her decide. Good luck!
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I would buy your airfare now and explain to your Aunt that the longer she waits to buy airfare, the more it is going to cost her. If she is hemming and hawing about the cost (which seems pretty reasonable to me), perhaps she is really having second thoughts about making the trip. Good luck.
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Since it's SW, there's no reason you can't book your flights now. She can book hers later if she decides. You all can still sit together...it's not like other airlines where you chose your seats right away.

You have until 45 days before the trip to make changes without penalty. That is the deadline, IMHO. I know the himming and hawing is really annoying....but I would just look at it like this...if she goes, great, if not, well..it's definitely her loss. Don't let her indecisiveness ruin it for you.

Christmas is coming....maybe she can ask for SW gift cards???
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Book without her. If she truly wants to go, she will book hers, if not, it's her loss.
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Book now! Are you consdiering cancelling the entire trip if she does not come along?
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Congratulations on getting your admin degree. I think everyone else has given some good suggestions.
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could you offer to pay for her ticket up front and ask that she pay you back little by little till you go? if not take advantage of that price because the prices are bond to go up and just let her know shes on her own to book her air good luck hope all works out
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You should get your airfare now before rates go up. As for your Aunt you just need to decide how much you want her to come, enough to pay for her airfare and as ilovejack said offer to pay and have her pay you back. If you don't feel comfortable paying for her it may be time for a heart to heart with her...if she's not coming your still in that window where you can pull her off your ressie and save the money. Let her know when that deadline is and you absolutely need to know by then. Its hard planning for others, good luck!
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Thanks everyone for your great suggestions. I totally understand her hemming and hawing. I went ahead and got our tickets and hopefully she will decide to come. I told her that she could pay me back in her time if that would help.
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