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Old 10-02-2010, 05:15 PM   #1
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Office Etiquette

We don't have that many people that work in our office, but the office is small. I don't know if I'm being a prude, or if I'm working with people who don't have a clue. One woman repeatedly trims her toenails at her desk, chews with her mouth open at her desk, and passes gas without even excusing herself. And last week, the other woman in the office microwaved leftover fish. In case any of you don't know, old fish microwaved is really really stinky. Don't do it at home!

Am I being overly sensitive or are they clueless? Any clues as to how to approach this? I don't want to come off as a nut-case, but I really hate powerful smells (and the sounds eminating from my office mate.).
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Hmmm that is a tough one, they are most definitely clueless but I'm not sure how to approach the subject.
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I think passing gas and cutting your toenails at your desk is a major etiquette issue. Is there someone in charge you can voice your concerns to?
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I also work in a small office (there are 12 of us in the building, total), and I agree that some of this stuff is seriously gross. Who trims her toenails at work!?! And who passes gas without at least saying excuse me? I excuse myself even when I’m the only one in the room!

I don't recommend broaching the subject with her yourself. Go to a superior.
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All those issue are office ettiquette problems I would either speak with a supervisor or an HR person.
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That is all gross! Who DOES that kind of stuff?? (I can't stand when my own kids and DH don't say excuse me after they burp.) Can you speak to a manager or someone? Not sure about handling it yourself. But something needs to be said!
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ewww to all of it. I too have a few that eat with their mouth open. Yuck, It is one of my biggest pet peeve. I hate people clipping their fingernails at their desks, never mind toenails
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All those issue are office ettiquette problems I would either speak with a supervisor or an HR person.
The problem here is that our supervisor is my husband. He walks a fine line trying to make sure that I don't appear to get special treatment. But he's in a different office and isn't subjected to the same nastiness.
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The problem here is that our supervisor is my husband. He walks a fine line trying to make sure that I don't appear to get special treatment. But he's in a different office and isn't subjected to the same nastiness.
Ugh! That's a tough one then Is there anyone else that can say something? Another coworker maybe?
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I've worked in a large office and a small office and the things you have mentioned are unacceptable anywhere and just downright disgusting. How could anyone think it is OK to cut your toenails at your desk? If there is anyone you can speak to, you really should voice your opinion.
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Can you do something funny... to sort of point out that it's a "problem."

Like, every time you hear someone pass gas, yell out "Dude, light a match! That's gross!"

Or... as my SIL used to say "P-U-B-L-I-C... save that for when you're alone!"
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Gross on all accounts! We used to have a fellow teacher who would microwave salmon patties at least once every week. We finally spoke up and let him know he was ruining lunch for everyone else, but it didn't stop him. Thanks goodness he works elsewhere now.
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The problem here is that our supervisor is my husband. He walks a fine line trying to make sure that I don't appear to get special treatment. But he's in a different office and isn't subjected to the same nastiness.
But, he's still the supervisor. For him to address this isn't giving you any extra treatment, it's just setting some ground rules. He could call the gas passing clipper into his office, and explain that personal hygiene issues need to be taken care of at home - toe clipping is not allowed at the office.
For the gas passing - buy a fake gas machine. Every time she goes off, set it off and say "Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. That's so gross. EXCUSE ME. I'll try to keep it to myself next time."
Mouth open while eating: Don't sit across from her. Maybe if she also has children, you could talk to her about how you're dealing with trying to either get your son to chew with his mouth shut or you could talk about how he's grossed out by someone at school who open-chews and ask if she's got suggestions on how he can handle it.

For the fish: Leave a sign. "Dear Microwave Users: Please, no more stinky food. I don't like it and it makes me smell funny. Thank you, the Micro."
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