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Old 08-12-2010, 09:59 AM   #1
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A Totally Selfless Act

This needs some background: As most of you know, I 'work' as a secretary at a karate dojo in exchange for Lauren's classes. The dojo has pre-school classes for 3 to 5 year olds, and when the kids turn 6, they transfer to our regular classes.
Anyway, one of our 4 year olds has Type 1 diabetes. He monitors himself, and gives himself his own insulin injections. He's a wonderfully cheerful, mature for his age little boy. His father is an over the road long haul trucker and is only home for a few days to a week once a month. His mother was diagnosed with stomach cancer about a month ago. She was given 3 to 5 months to live. The little boy helps her with her tube feedings and helps her with flushing her port for her central line.
Here's the selfless part: I'm not sure the relationship, whether it's the mother's sister or the father's, but the little boy's aunt has moved in to take care of him.
She was living out west (Las Vegas) with her little girl. She sold her home, quit her job, and moved her child (also 4) to Indiana. She changed their last name so that they have the same last name as the little boy. The little boy now calls her 'Mama ___' and his cousin is called his sister. She has given up her entire way of life to move here, so that when the mother dies, this little boy doesn't lose everything he knows by having to move to Nevada.
I have been humbled by the complete selflessness of the aunt-mommy. I don't know how many of us would move our families instead of saying "I'll move the kid in with me when things get too bad". I'm not sure I would or could.
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:14 AM   #2
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My heart breaks for the little boy losing his mother. But what a blessing his aunt is! That is remarkable that she would do that. I'm not sure I could, either. Bringing the child to live at your home would be one thing but moving across the country with your own child is a totally different story. What an amazing person! They have some rough months ahead, though. Hoping they are able to find peace and comfort during this difficult time.
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Totally selfless! The woman has earned her wings for sure. What a heartwarming story Teresa - lots of prayers and pixies as they all go through this journey together.
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for that family. That's a beautiful act. I agree, I don't think it's something most would do.
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Amazing. Incredibly selfless. Mind boggling humbling.
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