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Old 07-26-2010, 09:14 AM   #1
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Very happy but also a little sad

I know that this may come across as a stupid whiney post but I am hoping someone understands.

My wonderful husband worked for a company for 15 years and during the last five of them worked from home. During that time frame we had our wonderful boys, now 2 and 4 years old. Although he had to work we all got to spend our days together and it meant so much to all of us. Last summer he was laid-off as he made more than the company wanted to continue to pay him due to his longevity. It was a shock but we are blessed financially and we did just fine this last year.

Today he started a new job. He and I are very happy he has a job now and we will have a steady income and stability. He now works out of an office and will be gone all day. The boys and I will miss him so much and I will have my hands more full than ever here at home. He left a 1/2 hour ago and the boys are still asleep so the house is crazy quiet and I feel very alone and a kind of sad. We are a very close family and this is a big change for us. I know it will be just fine and we will get used to the new "normal" but it will be an adjustment this week I think for everyone.
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I totally get how your feeling in the quite house. My dd is away for a whole week for the first time ever (she is 15 yrs old) and I'm wandering around the house not knowing what to do. Once your boys wake up it will be easier.
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I don't think it's whiny at all. Your family needs to make and adjustment and even when we change for the better, it is hard.

I think the good thing is the excitement you and your boys will feel when your DH comes home.
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The days may be a little lonely at first but just wait until the excitement of "Daddy's home". I bet you sleep better at night and DH's self esteem may improve too. I hope it works out well for all of you.
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Pixies for the adjustment period! I totally understand. DBF has done contract work on and off with some jobs being on site. I am used to him being home all the time and so miss him when he is not here. I guess that is a good thing as there are people out there who can't stand to have their spouses/significant others/children at home all the time.
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Thinking of you during this change.
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I guess that is a good thing as there are people out there who can't stand to have their spouses/significant others/children at home all the time.
That would be me. No way, no how could I take Lenny being home all of the time - but that's how I grew up. Mom did her thing, dad went off to work and when they were home, mom did her thing, dad did his. There was no kind of togetherness and Lenny and I are the same way. Sometimes togetherness for us leads to arguements so I'll gladly spend the days without him if it means no arguing.

But here's some for the OP.
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