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Old 08-13-2009, 10:03 PM   #1
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What part of "NO" do people not understand?

3 times in less than five hours we witnessed cast members telling guests "no" and guests (adults) doing what they wanted to anyway??? First a CM told a family that they couldn't go in the breakfast entrance early because their ADR time was for after park opening. They walked around her and went in anyway. Next a photopass CM told a family they needed to get in line to take a picture with the tree of life. They argued with her and she told them it wasn't fair to those waiting in line. They took their picture anyway and almost got in our picture! Then the CM at Dinosaur told a family their child was too short. The dad argued that it was ok because he was going to ride with his son. Again the CM said no and the family got in line with him anyway??? What is wrong with people?
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can you spell "IGNORAMOUSES"????? wow, i know what you mean, tricia. and people were really on the worst behaviour over at hs yesterday...i was about embarassed to be a human!
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It is sad. Next time I go, I am going to take a bunch of "I am special" stickers with me to give to those who think the rules and basic courtesy apply to everyone but themselves. Sure would have gone through an awful lot of those stickers this past week. It is such a poor example for our children.
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Some people are just seriously ignorant.

We witnessed a few things like that in June as well . . . the most annoying offender was the couple of families at DHS that were told no less than 7 times that they had to stand behind the brass lines in the cement if they wanted to see the parade and that they could NOT block the walkway (we were right by Backlot Express, across from Star Tours and the Jedi Training Academy)

The only thing was that WE were standing right AT the brass line on one side of the walkway and had been standing there for about 30 minutes. There was also another family at the line on the other side. The 2 groups kept standing right in the middle of the walkway out of Backlot Express and were told to move a few times, THEN they decided since they had to be behind the brass line, they'd just come right up in front of us. I wasn't about to budge and told them "I don't THINK so." and the CM had to intervene and took them away from the area to a place they all could stand without people around.

Some people just get that "I'm the most important person in the world and no one is going to tell me what I can and cannot do on MY vacation!" attitude it seems . . . it's sad really!
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some people just don't want to play by the rules.
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i have it happen all the time at the college. they get by with it just often enough to keep them trying it.
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I like the "I'm Special" sticker idea, those people probably would wear it.
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Some people are just seriously ignorant.

Some people just get that "I'm the most important person in the world and no one is going to tell me what I can and cannot do on MY vacation!" attitude it seems . . . it's sad really!
You hit it right on the head. Welcome to my world. I work in a resort town and people are the same way around here. They dont care about anything but them selfs.

And also it is something about the word "no" that they dont understand!! I dont know if it is the word it self the letter n or the letter o that they dont get.
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It's such a shame when people are like that.
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Yup, they're everywhere. I wish people had more empathy for those around them.

Just last weekend we were at our local Six Flags park, and there was a large family with shirts advertising a Christian school, with bible quotations and so on. The mom was carrying a backpack.

Well, at Six Flags, you can't take any bags on the thrill rides. They have lockers available. And at the entrance to each thrill ride's queue, an employee stops anyone with a bag and tells them they can't go on the ride with it, then directs them to the nearby lockers.

These so-called Christian folks stopped when the employee told them to, bvut then they just pushed on by! The teen employee just frowned and moved on to the next people in line.

So when this family got through the queue, and sat down in the coaster, a ride operator there told the woman she couldn't take the backpack on the coaster, and that she couldn't leave it lying on the ground nearby either. An argument ensued, as the lines backed up more and more. It took the woman five minutes to get it through her thick skull that she couldn't violate the rules. In the mean time, they could have launched two or three train loads of people if she'd just followed the rules as she'd been told!

We see this sort of thing there every time we go. It's just so sad how many people not only think the rules don't apply to them, but who don't care how their behavior affects others.
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