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Old 11-11-2008, 04:13 PM   #1
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One more decision

Now that my trip is almost a month away I need to make another decision. Do I tell my nieces (22 & 24) who lived near Orlando that I will be there. We met up last year for a few hours during my vacation and had what I thought was a fun time. We had planned more time but they cancelled at the last minute.
Now the problem is that my sister, their mom, is simply put, one of the nastiest people you could meet (how she ended up with 2 such basically nice kids is beyond me). Sis (who puts the "dis" in dysfunctional ) has been uping the ante with the endless Guilt game she has plays with our Dad, 82, (who lives near me) recently. He used to speak with the younger one weekly, but she hasn't answered the phone in about a month. The older one only e-mails my brother, who lives with Dad (we lost Step-Mom about 2 years ago), when they need money. It's pretty clear that Sis is once again trying to use her daughters to hurt Dad and get more money out of him. She claims she is too sick to work (but can't find a dr. to label her disabled tho). As far as we know neither niece works. the younger one graduated art school over a year ago, and the older one has been stumbling through UCF because of her mom's interference. And so it goes on and on.

Sorry for the soap opera, but I'm so sick of how they treat my dad. He's really too old for this nonsense. However, I know there will be heck to pay if I don't let them know I'll be nearby. There is part of one day of my trip that I invite them to meet me at DTD so they won't have to pay to get into a park. But I don't know if I want to get involved in the drama.

any opinions?

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If you feel that strongly about it I say don't tell them. If the find out later you were so close why didn't you tell them. Say you had a very busy schdule and there was no time to meet up with them. That's what I would do. Good luck on whatever you do.
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Does your dad want you to meet up with them? I think I`m feeling some conection here as my own dad is a very frail 83. If he wants me to do something I do it!
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If it's going to create a lot of headaches for you then I wouldn't tell them.
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just have fun disney is a happy place. You dont need all that to bring you down, its better to stay away from them right now ... have a great trip
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Thanks for the thoughts and pixies. My brother has pretty much advised the same thing - not to worry about them. So unless things change in the next few weeks, I'll just enjoy myself and avoid the drama.

31 days to go!!!!!!
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