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Old 08-22-2000, 07:17 PM   #1
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Wedding Stress!

My fiance just called our wedding site to talk to the coordinator about having the rehearsal dinner there and said he got some other person's voice mail. So I called, and when I asked to speak to our coordinator I was told she no longer works there and they have someone new.

Now, I'm sure this new person is capable, but why were we not informed of this change? Our wedding is only 25 days away! Well, they transferred me to the new coordinator's voice mail because they could not find her and I did leave her a message. I just want to be sure that our previous coordinator left her all the details we had worked out. And I'd like to be able to meet her and make sure I'll be comfortable with her taking charge of my wedding.

I just had to share, because you all are so wonderful.

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Old 08-22-2000, 08:33 PM   #2
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Re: Wedding Stress!

I can understand your conscern. I too would want to talk to the new co-ordinator and I also think they should have notified you of the change.

Getting married without any complications can be stressful enough! (but in a good way ).

Here is that famous Pixie with her dust... Hopefully all will work out! I know it will!

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Old 08-22-2000, 09:13 PM   #3
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More pixie dust coming your way!



Take a deep breath! Everything will be fine! You will meet the new coordinator and wonder why she didn't come along sooner! Our thoughts and prayers are with you for your special day!

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Sarah-
At least you found out now, so you do have time to go over all the details with her.
I'm sure things will work out - keep the faith.

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Old 08-22-2000, 10:33 PM   #5
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All will be fine Sarah, don't sweat the small stuff. This happened to me when I got married, only the whole banquet facility was bought out, so everyone in the place was new. Sometimes it makes it even better. Keep the Faith, and good luck with the rest of your plans.
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Old 08-23-2000, 10:14 AM   #6
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Sarah,

RELAX....Take deep breaths.....Count to 10 slowly....If this doesn't work....Try it again....and again....and again! Remember that you will look back in a few years and laugh about the whole thing! That is after a few trips to a therapist!LOL! Just joking! Relax or all the stress will make you sick. I was sick at our wedding, didn't want to be there. Just wanted to go home and to bed. Some wedding night, in bed with a 102 fever! Hubby really liked the next day!! I had larengitis (excuse my spelling)

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Re: Wedding Stress!

Thank you all for your kind words. In fact I'm feeling a little more at ease this morning. The new coordinator called my fiance last night and told him she had been training with the previous coordinator for a month and assured him that she had all the information regarding our wedding. She also left me a message on my work voice mail that she would also like to get together and go over a few things. So, I'll be calling her today to set something up.

Thanks again. Hopefully, this will be the only thing that goes wrong!



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Good Luck Sarah. Every wedding has a slight
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I am glad that you both have been finally contacted by the new co-ordinator. Wishing all goes well!

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I'm glad everything is all right. Just try to relax (I know it's hard) but everything will turn out right! Lots of prayers and pixie dust.

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SarahJ, I am glad to hear that the coordinator contacted you. You may not believe thism but this actually happened to me two years ago when I got married. We actaully looked at taking our business somewhere else, but no other place was open. Things ended up working out great and the wedding was a blast! Are you getting married on the 16? My cousin is getting married that same day! I am her matron of honor so I have been in the stress zone myself with her. She is not exactly the best bride to deal with. Her and her fiance are going to WDW on the 18th for a week. I will think about you that day! Good luck and enjoy your day!

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I'm so gald things are working out! Good luck with your planning!

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