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Well a new school year is upon us, and as usual, the transition from peaceful summer to full force schedule takes its toll (For me as a teacher and for my kids as students) . DS11 has ADD and always takes some time to meet the challenges of a new teacher, homework expectations, and friends being in other classes. That's really not so different from other kids, but I worry about him anyway.
His teacher and I are pretty good friends, and she is aware of his ADD. Her classroom management plan includes being told once to do something, a second time is a warning and your name goes on the clipboard, a third is missing recess time, and it progresses from there.
He came home Thursday night so agitated because he had gotten on the clipboard twice and had to miss five minutes of recess. On top of this, he was a lunch helper, so he needed to leave class early to help serve lunch compounding the work he didn't have done.
He is so afraid he's going to get sent to the principal. (Now, keep in mind that the principal gave his own talk to the kids about how discipline is handled through the office. (Detention-Expulsion)) I think DS is confusing the talk the principal gave to the student body with the management program his teacher uses in hers.
Now, don't get me wrong here, I am not looking to excuse him from having things done. In fact, I know how exasperating telling him to do something ten times is. I do it daily. I do think he can become more aware of how he uses his time as a strategy with having ADD. After all, he's going to have it his whole life. He needs ways of coping to get himself through.
He does take medication, but it wears off at about 2 pm. His doctor refuses to put him on any more meds at this point because he's only in the 2nd percentile for weight, and I support that.
To end his all around rotten week, his friend is in another class. This friend and my son were in daycare together and have been close. They play like brothers and fight like brothers... As they were walking home yesterday, his friends decided to run away from him. (I think they thought they were being funny. I honestly can't imagine any of them being purposefully rude to him... : ) Each time he tried to catch up with them, they'd run even further. He called me at work just devastated. I asked him if he thought he caused them to run away, and he didn't think so. It's a combination of miscommunication and my son's sensitivity this week.
(Sigh) This poor boy sure could use a dose of "Surviving 5th Grade" pixies and any advice you can give his parents. He's putting an awful lot of pressure on himself for just being 11...
All I tell you is that this is the age that everything changes for most kids. Their teachers and expectations are harder and tougher than past years, their friends are starting to pick up on little differences, and may decide they aren't "cool" enough to hang out with - and their bodies and minds are changing. It's a tough time for anyone. Honestly, so far with our kids, 5th grade has always been the hardest - and we're going through it once again! (for the last time, thank goodness!)
Just be there for him. Let him talk through what's going on. Help with ideas for social situations, i.e.: this is a time when school dances started for our kids - we went through appropriate touching, dancing, behavior, and ways to speak to friends. We also went through asking someone to dance, how to react if they said no, how to refuse a dance without upsetting the other person, etc.
Make sure he understands that he won't be expelled for not being able to sit still! Maybe you can have a conference with his teacher (and him), and go through some ideas for him being able to control himself better - like, can he get up and just walk around if he's antsy?
Here's hoping that after all the changes slow down and he makes adjustments to all the new stuff of the new school year everything will get back to "normal". I agree with Teresa in that 5th grade is a big year for changes and will probably be a bumpy year for him. Good luck with all the adjustments!
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I'd keep the lines of communication open with his teacher (and I know sometimes being friends isn't always as helpful as you'd think). Sometimes as a teacher, I'm the last to know a kid is having trouble with something, as the kids usually really want to please and downplay their feelings about things. It could be as simple as incorporating some extra "chances" in for him. Growing up is just hard sometimes.
and tons of I hope this is just an adjustment period to the 5th grade for him. My DGS is going thru the same things with kindergarten. So tons of for him
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. DS11 has ADD and always takes some time to meet the challenges of a new teacher, homework expectations, and friends being in other classes. That's really not so different from other kids, but I worry about him anyway.
I do think he can become more aware of how he uses his time as a strategy with having ADD. After all, he's going to have it his whole life. He needs ways of coping to get himself through.
As they were walking home yesterday, his friends decided to run away from him. (I think they thought they were being funny. I honestly can't imagine any of them being purposefully rude to him... 
: ) Each time he tried to catch up with them, they'd run even further. He called me at work just devastated. I asked him if he thought he caused them to run away, and he didn't think so. It's a combination of miscommunication and my son's sensitivity this week.
He's putting an awful lot of pressure on himself for just being 11...
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I'd keep the lines of communication open with his teacher (and I know sometimes being friends isn't always as helpful as you'd think
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