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Old 04-19-2008, 11:27 AM   #1
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Question Wedding gift Question

Just wondering everyone's opinion on a wedding gift. For the Bridal shower, I gave a couple of the place settings that the Bride to be asked for on their Registry. I noticed that recently no one as purchased any more of them to complete the set. WOuld it be OK to buy them more of the place settings as a wedding gift or should I get something different on the Registry from what I gave at the Shower. What do you all think?
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I think it's great that you are such a concerned friend! If she put the dishes on her list, I think it is VERY appropriate to give more place settings!
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Give whatever you like! It's your gift, so I don't there are really any specific do's or don'ts. I know if I didn't get all of my place settings, I would want them regardless what occasion I received them for!
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It's totally appropriate for you to buy a gift that has not been taken off the registry.
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Absolutely it would be appropriate for you to get them another place setting. It's very sweet of you to notice that nobody had purchased any more of it!
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I would definitely get more place settings. I'm sure they'll be very appreciative!
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I too would buy more. It's something the bride obviously wants otherwise it wouldn't be on her registry.
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One time we gave a gift card for a local grocery store. You may say why, but we figured after the wedding and honeymoon their house is usually empty and who wants to worry about grocery money when you get back.
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If she's close to completing the set, then I would buy some more. If she's really far from it, then maybe something else. Now that I said this, she's probably right smack dab in the middle!!! Buy more, who cares!!
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I'd say if she registered for it, go ahead and buy more.
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Anything on the registry is always a safe bet.
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Completely appropriate, go for it!
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I think buying more place settings is a great idea.
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How much longer to go before the wedding?

I'd maybe wait to see if anyone else purchased any. Not to be nosy, but how many did you get? For place settings I'd think 4 would be appropriate so if she has those then I'd buy something else on the registry.
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