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Old 03-15-2008, 10:59 AM   #1
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Update on Mom's 'Boot Camp' Experience...

First of all, a zillions hugs and thanks to Jookiba for your post yesterday - she's been sweet enough to 'lend an ear' to my worries. Thanks!

DS Tyler is now entering Phase 3 of his Marine Corps recruit training out in San Diego. He's been out there since Jan and as long as he stays injury-free, is scheduled to graduate mid-April.

They tell us parents that having a son or daughter enter boot camp means that the parents go through boot camp, too. True, we don't go through the physical or mental 'transformation' that our kids do - but we go through a trial of channeling so much energy, love and strength to our children to support them in their training. I have never before been so intensely focused upon my son, what he is doing on a day-by-day basis, and offering him as much encouragement as I could.

That's the job of the parent - keep an upbeat attitude, encourage our recruits and help they stay motivated. We ignore their complaints and problems and just tell them how proud we are of them and what they are accomplishing - because let's face it; it's not suppose to be easy...it's the Marine Corps!

So this has been a stressful few months. Every day I have sent a letter with jokes or photos or funny stories or news clippings. I've sent prayers and healing energy when he had pnuemonia. I have been counting the days until Tyler's graduation in April and flying out to CA to see him receive his Eagle Globe and Anchor. And of course, looking forward to his 10 days of leave until he has to return for more training...

We had figured on him coming to our house for 5 days and then go up to his dad's house for 5 days so his entire family would get a chance to see him. Last week, I found out that DS will NOT be coming here. Instead, he's going straight to his dad's so he can do the 'Recruiters Assistance' program.

I am devastated, to say the least. Not only for myself, but also for his sisters who now have no idea when they will get the chance to see their brother again. (They are not able to fly out with me for graduation.)

Now to be fair, I understand that recruits can be 'highly encouraged' to do the RA program. As newly graduated Marines, they return to work with their recruiter during their 10 days leave and earn addition leave time. So I am trying to stay 'postive and supportive' in my letters to him - even though my heart is breaking.

When I fly out to CA, I'll get to see him for Family Day and then at the Graduation Ceremony. And then that's it for who knows when. As soon as hisleave is over, he heads right back out to CA for the School of Infantry and then straight to his MOS school (Military Occupational Specialty.) After that, he'll be assigned a permanent duty station. Deployment could happen at any time after that.

So thanks guys for bearing with me. It's not easy to be a mom - and yes, we've gotta untie those apron strings at some point in time. I just had no idea it would be so sudden.

Coming back to the PP boards has really lifted my spirits, though. I had no idea I loved you all so much!

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I am sooooooo far away from even thinking of cutting apron strings, I don't think I ever could, and can imagine how devastated you feel. Hope you have a nice trip while you get to see him.
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Ah Cathy, I am so sorry to hear Tyler won't be coming home as planned!

Let him know how proud we all are of him. His sacrifices are noted; his courage is appriciated!
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I so totally feel where you are coming from! When DS1 graduated from boot camp, I too was expecting him to come home for leave. Unfortunately, the Navy had other plans and they no longer were allowed leave after bootcamp if they had a school. So DS went off to school right from boot camp.
Being a mom is rough, but the rewards are so special! Chin up, sweetie! You are doing a wonderful job keeping him going! He will always remember that!
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I'm always here for you dear.....you know that. It's so tough but try to keep your chin up and take it one day at a time. That motto is how I got through some pretty rough stuff in my life.



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