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Old 02-28-2008, 08:45 AM   #1
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Scary Exchange Student Story!

I don't want to scare anyone out of foreign student exchanges, but I just read this story, and the way AFS handled this student's situation was horrible! And they haven't even given the family their money back!

Exchange student's scare | Portland Press Herald
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Such a shame. I hope the boy returns to his normal healthy self soon!
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That's really too bad. I hope he doesn't suffer any permanent effects.

When I was growing up we were a host family for about 15 years for International Agricultural Exchange Association, sometimes taking in 2 or 3 students at a time when other hosts or students requested a change. (Unfortunately it happens) We had adult (ages 19-29) exchange students from England, New Zealand, Australia, Denmark, Germany, Switzerland and I think the Netherlands but by that time I had moved away from home. We used to love it when our Swiss guy's Mom sent care packages.... Swiss chocolate anybody?!! Omg! I just realized our first student would be nearly 60 years old now! I totally enjoyed learning the different cultures (although those Kiwi's can keep their Toast & Marmite!! blech) and my sister went to New Zealand for 7 or 8 months as an exchange student herself. She didn't have a great experience there with her host family either, although she wasn't starved!
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Wow! And the whole idea that AFS discourages parental contact during the students experience is troubling.
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That is a really frightening story. I hope that he will be ok and that the program will re-evaluate its policies in light of this situation. It may be an isolated incident, but it never should have happened at all.
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I couldn't read the whole story....second page wouldn't load.

How awful.

I had neighbor that did an exchange to Turkey when I was a kid. She came back looking a lot like that boy. She got sick though (I can't remember the disease). I just remember my parents talking about how awful it was for her there.

And I had a classmate who went to Australia on a sheep farm. He said it was awful too, they used him like slave labor.

Turned me off to the whole idea.

I'd be willing to take someone here if my DH was up for it, but I won't send my kids away that long.
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Kudos to the boy - he still wants to make a difference in the world. He still wants to go help build homes this summer in Zimbabwe.

for him and his family. It is an absolute shame he had to go through such an ordeal. Hope his health improves quickly and that there is no long term problems.
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How horrible, for him and his family.... that he has no long term side effects...
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Wow! And the whole idea that AFS discourages parental contact during the students experience is troubling.

My kids' school has an exchange program, except it's only for a couple of weeks. The school discourages contact - other than once or twice. They've found that if the kids talk to their parents more than that, they tend to get caught up in what they're missing - and of course, parents don't help by saying things like "We really miss you" "It's so hard not having you here" "your sister doesn't know what to do without you" which they mean to use a way of saying "your prescence is missed, and we won't forget you" but is usually heard by (all ages) as "We can't cope without you"

I find myself a little suspect about some of this story - one of the things I can't understand is the family being ignorant about what the host family would expect. I always find out - through the school, whose program is no-where near as stream-lined as AFS - what religion the family is, and what that might mean for my DD (I would NEVER expect a Jewish family to feed her pork, or a Muslim family to feed her during the day in the season of Rhamadam)
Maybe he thought he could do it, and then was embarrassed to admit it wouldn't work for his body.
That poor boy does look pretty awful, though. Many, many hopes and thoughts that this can be resolved. Here's hoping that he gains some weight and is healthy once again.
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He look worse than some of the patients we've had! Hope he improves rapidly.
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