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Old 05-23-2007, 07:33 PM   #1
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Update on my son

Recap for the newbies and those that may have forgotten. In February he was ordered into anger management and a year court supervision for a head lock in PE class. April 23rd he and his best friend stole a bottle of Captain Morgan (a 5th) from my house, drank it and best friend had allergic reaction and passed out and couldn't wake up. He called us and we had to go haul his friend out of the woods (about 3/4 of a mile) so the ambulance and police we called could find them. We then had to cancel our Disney vacation to pay for a lawyer.

May 11th he went to court and they scheduled his next appearance for June 13th. There went our second mini vacation to Gatlinburg possibility as this is in the middle of that time.

Today we recieved a plea agreement from our attorney which came from the States Attorney with the following punishment:

12 months court probation
Court costs
Counseling at the direction of probation
No drugs and/or alcohol and random testing
20 hours public service work

While they don't condone his underage consumption of alcohol he was commended for contacting us and 911 which resulted in his best friends life not being lost. They will not revoke his prior court supervision.

So I will call the Attorney tomorrow for him to accept the plea deal. All in all I would say it is fair.

Also today he spoke with an Army recruiter and took a pre ASVAP/ASFAB whatever the heck its called. He scored a 60. Apparently thats not bad. Do I want him in the military when he gets thru high school next year???? But I get no choice in the matter.

So that is the latest. What y'all think? About the court, about the military whatever........
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He needs the discipline of the military

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Personally, I am pretty anti military- but thats just me. And the 'deal' sounds fair.
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The deal seems pretty fair.
The military has been wonderful for some, I hope your DS has a good experience.
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Seems like a pretty fair deal with the plea. As far as the military, I guess that is something for him and you to discuss. Good luck with everything!
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The plea sounds like it's pretty fair. I hope HE is made to pay the fees, and not YOU.
The military? Scary thought, that. We didn't want my Step-son in either, but he was bound and determined to go. He went, we were proud that he was going to do something so responsible, and then he went AWOL TWICE!! So, now we're upset he's NOT in (dis-honarably discharged )

If this is what he really wants, then I admire him. You can comfort yourself a bit with the fact that a lot of the people who are going into the war zones are reservists.

You could also encourage him to go to officer training school. A 60 is NOT bad.
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I'm an Army brat, both brothers were in the Army and my ex is Army. Growing up and once *I* was the wife, one of our "ministries" was to help out the young guys, having them over for holidays, running them on errands if they didn't have a car, helping them get settled in, dealing with wives if they were married, etc. Because of that, we had LOTS of different young men cross our threshold and the majority had had their rearends whipped into shape and had become upstanding, respectful young men. There were some, however, who simply refused to learn and they wound up washing out somewhere along the line, one in particular I know of is still in Leavenworth. I think your son needs to understand that it is a commitment and it's not something you can just decide you don't "feel" like going to work that day. When you sign the contract, you are signing yourself, mind and body over to Uncle Sam. If you get a tattoo that gets infected, they can and will dock your pay and you might even end up cleaning latrines for a month. If you get a sunburn that makes you sick, same thing, you have damaged government property (my oldest DB can tell ya about THAT one! ) The military doesn't mess around b/c people's lives are at stake.

That said, it was a wonderful career for my Dad. He was in for 20 years (officer for 15 of that). Benefits and retirement are excellent. If he can hack it, it might be just the thing he needs.
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The plea agreement sounds fair, and it was good that they did reconize his being responsible and calling 911. The military... ...to you on that one.
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I think the plea bargain is fair too. I won't comment on the military aspect, as I don't feel I'm qualified, other than to wish him (and you & your DH) all the best. If it is truly the career he wants then, all the best to him.

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Lori - It sounds like the plea deal is as good as you could have hoped for. Let's hope all of this has helped him to grow up! I wish ALL of you the best when it comes to his decision on his future. It is so hard to be a parent and watch your children make choices that might not be the same as yours.

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Sounds like a pretty fair deal to me. I hope this brings this to a reasonably good conclusion.

Any chance of saving your Gatlinburg trip?
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The plea sounds fair, and I'm proud of you for agreeing with it.

I love the military idea. My DSis and DBro were both in the Army, and it did wonders for them. I wish my DD would enlist. It's a great service, and will thank him from my heart for his service to our country!
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