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Old 12-30-2006, 06:01 PM   #1
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Silly thing, I\'m such a crybaby! updated in reply

18yo just called from Epcot and the Hallelujah Chorus was in full glory. They are going to see the CP a little later, but paused to listen for a minute. I'm so [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/cry.gif[/img] that I've missed another once-in-a-lifetime Disney moment with my Dad (he was the MK Veteran of the Day in 2005). I just burst into tears. DD's voice was SO happy and bubbly that I covered up b/c I don't want her to know I'm sad. He's turning 70 in August and is not a Disney fan to start with so I feel like I've missed something that was very important. I would have loved to experience the CP with him, just once.

Any sage advice on how to get over this? It's bringing his mortality front and center and I just can't stop crying.
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Old 12-30-2006, 10:19 PM   #2
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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] I'm sorry Dawn. Maybe it will help to remember even if you can't be ther at least your DD gets to share this special moment with her Grandpa, & that it is something she will cherish forever.
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Old 12-30-2006, 11:01 PM   #3
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Re: Silly thing, I\'m such a crybaby!

Why is his mortality in question? He's only almost 70!
My Grandma D. was here today at mine and Dh's B-Day party. She's going to be 95 in Feb. Yeah, she's been a widow for 5 years this month, but Grandpa was 93.

I can (sort of) understand being sad that you aren't there today. Is it really that your Dad was there, or that your (sometimes problematic) child was there and SOOOO happy?

Either way, I really hope you can get through this. It's something that yes, would have been great if you could have all been there for, but your DDs that were will always remember the day. And your Dad will have something really good to say about WDW from it.
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Dad called me afterward and could hardly talk, he was so choked up. I'm so glad it was a wonderful Disney experience for him and he could see that it isn't *ALL* about a mouse. Marlee Matlin was phenomenal according to them, and VERY moving. She signed and her interpreter/DH (?) did the vocal work, but she did speak some at the end.

Later, when my Dad and I could talk, I found out that a lot of his emotion came from the fact that DD1 practiced, worked hard, tried out and made the CP cast choir, but then blew off all the rehearsals and couldn't sing. He was very upset that she let such an opportunity just pass her by.

Our family is just weird and we don't picture ourselves past 50 or 60 in the first place. My Dad was in a bit of a panic the last time we spoke b/c his life insurance is going to expire next year and he "never expected to live this long". If it does run out and anything happens to him, it will be really bad financially for my mother. He said that we'd find him dead at his desk and he'll never be able to retire. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] That has really weighed heavily on me the last week or so.

I am so very grateful that 18yo DD was there with him, just like she was there for the Veteran flag ceremony. I'm so happy that she will have those memories, just sad that I or the little DDs will not. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
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But Dawn, you do have some memories of it. You have emotional phone calls from your loved ones telling you about it. Can't get much better than that in my opinion. They knew you'd love to hear about their experience and took the time to share it with you. Would you rather have them keep special moments to themselves because it might hurt that you aren't there....or share it with them through the phone? I think you know the answer to that. Keep the memory of what they told you and how they felt in your heart. And remember this the next time they call to tell you about something they are enjoying that they know you would have enjoyed too!
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