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Old 11-11-2006, 09:27 AM   #1
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How do you decide who\'s house to have Thanksgiving at?

DH and I always said we'd just go to whoever invited us first.
Well, DH's family has figured that out. And now - they start setting up Thanksgiving around Oct. 1!
DSis asked me last night to dinner at her house on TG. Called DH to be sure we were clear, and NOPE - he's already accepted from his family. A MONTH ago!
I'm thinking Dsis and I need to set Christmas dinner up NOW, so I can tell Dh's family when we're not available.
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Old 11-11-2006, 09:31 AM   #2
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We alternate. One year we're at my parents (my Mom does TG for my Dad's side of the family who we only see at TG) and the next year we're at DH's parents (which is actually at his cousin's house because it's the biggest)!


We switch off for Christmas too.
This year we're going to my parents [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
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Re: How do you decide who\'s house to have Thanksgiving at?

Normally we have Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner at our house and everyone comes here. This year due to my grandmother's health, we are all taking dishes up to her house to be with her and then Christmas dinner will be here.
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Re: How do you decide who\'s house to have Thanksgiving at?

DH isn't close to any of his living relatives (he hasn't seen most of them in over 20 years).
We've always gone to my mom's for Thanksgiving but this year I'm cooking and giving her a break [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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Going to my mom's [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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Re: How do you decide who\'s house to have Thanksgiving at?

Thanksgiving has alternated between Hikie's folks house and his Aunt and Uncle's house. It was such a strain on Mom that last year, we hosted it at our house instead of at Mom and Dad's. Now this year, Hikie's cousin wants to spare her mamma (and who wouldn't) but the problem is that she lives in Columbia SC. That would be a 3 hour trip up and back. And we'd have to take Mom and Dad with us since they don't drive after dark. We will see what happens.

Oh, and we always do Christmas Eve at my parents. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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It fluctuates in our house, but it's only my dads side of the family that lives around here, so it's either at his moms, his sisters or my moms house.
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It's always my brother's house.
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We alternate. One year we're at my parents (my Mom does TG for my Dad's side of the family who we only see at TG) and the next year we're at DH's parents (which is actually at his cousin's house because it's the biggest)!


We switch off for Christmas too.
This year we're going to my parents [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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This is exactly what we do. Except Christmas we have at our house, and have both families-- because I'm an only child, and I don't want my parents to have a Christmas alone.
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I always have Thanksgiving at my house. I don't know where we're having Christmas yet. the last two years it's been at our friend Jim's house. he and his wife are like family and they wanted to hae everyone over.
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Re: How do you decide who\'s house to have Thanksgiving at?

We never really had to deal with that issue as we lived so far from both sides. When we went to visit one side or the other, we didn't do it on holidays.
Now that our oldest is married, they alternate each year: last year it was TG with DIL family and Christmas with us. This year was to be the reverse, but DIL is expecting our first DGD in Dec and no traveling for her (we live 3 hours away). So her family will get both, but we will be down there for DGD's birth. At least, that's the plan, but you know babies....don't PLAN anything! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
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We always go to my in-laws for Thanksgiving cause she is an awesome cook and makes everything from scratch. Even I would rather go there and eat than at my own folks. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] My folks unfortunately only make a turkey breast and Mom makes Stove-Top stuffing. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]
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Its always at my house - one year we let my sister have it and I ended up making my own "Thanksgiving dinner" since her food was awful [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
We have Christmas Eve here too - big prime rib dinner. Christmas Day - everyone does their own thing with their family - my mom and dad come here but that is it. This year we are going to have a New Year's Eve party too.
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It is always at my brothers house [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]
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Its always at my house - one year we let my sister have it and I ended up making my own "Thanksgiving dinner" since her food was awful [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
We have Christmas Eve here too - big prime rib dinner. Christmas Day - everyone does their own thing with their family - my mom and dad come here but that is it. This year we are going to have a New Year's Eve party too.

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I'll get a sparkly shirt for for New Year's Eve. What time should I arrive?
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