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Old 11-26-2016, 07:20 PM   #1
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Feeling Anxious about our Upcoming Trip!

So we leave in a little over 8 days!! I'm so very excited, but I'm also feeling anxious. This is our first trip with two kids. I have 2 daughters, one is 3 (almost 4) and the other is 13 months.

We took my eldest daughter when she was just shy of 2 and it's like we had hit a sweet spot at that age. She was able to keep up physically, she was super well behaved and hadn't hit the sass that came when she turned 2 and a half. Needless to say the trip was amazing.

Now I feel like both my girls are going through some very typical growing pains. My 3 year old struggles with listening and is a very stubborn eater and our 13 month old is going through the normal...getting into everything phase. I'm just so worried that the mixture of their behaviors, that normally exhaust me by days end are going to kill me on this trip!

The one major benefit is that my husband's parents are coming as they did on our last trip. So it will be 4 on 2.
I'm a huge planner so the trip is very scheduled with daily nap time as well as 2 half park days and 1 day of no parks. However even with the breaks I'm stressed. I hope I can just go with the flow but at the same token I hope the girls do okay so we don't have to adapt plans too much!!

Oy, I suppose this was more of a vent session, but I imagine many of you have been there, done that and could send along advice!
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Congrats on your upcoming trip! It sounds like there is much anticipation.
Advice?
  • Let the children's schedules/needs dictate the plans--even changing the plans if necessary.
  • Keep expectations in check.
  • Take care of yourself. Make sure you get rest/breaks, too. (You're not the only one who can do things--bath time for example--just because it doesn't get done "your way" if the kids are clean, then that was goal.)
  • This is Disney and sometimes our children surprise us in ways we hadn't imagined.
Have a magical trip!
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Old 11-26-2016, 09:14 PM   #3
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I'm sure the Disney magic will shine just as bright on this trip. I've found through the years each age is just as wonderful..just different.

When my son was younger (and more strong willed) he enjoyed having a small backpack with his snacks and drinks. I found several healthy snacks at his timing made for a much happier little boy.

Enjoy. Take time to look for the hidden Mickey's.
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I think you've gotten good advice and you are already planning to take breaks and stick to nap routines so all that will help keep everyone happy and rested. I took my girls on their first trip when they were 4 and 18 months. They were also going through typical stuff for their ages. They were having so much fun behavior was not an issue. We did things that interested them, kept them fed, hydrated and rested and it was great. I had also researched the attractions and shows ahead of time as one of my kids has sensory issues. We stayed away from anything I thought would be too loud or scary. Try to relax and not worry too much. Take it day by day.
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I took my girls by myself when they were 2&3 years old(daddy had to work). Like others have said, make sure that they get plenty of rest, do not wake them up in the morning to get to the park early. We are big believers in letting everyone sleep in. Also, you are what you eat, especially the little ones. So I made sure that they had good meals and snack foods. You can really tell a difference in their behavior if they get hungry or eat more junk then good food. Although, dole whips count as good snacks at WDW . Take it slow. We would do a couple of rides then just take a break and have a snack and a drink. This was our pattern the whole trip. Plus do not underestimate the power of swimming. Kids need to burn off energy and the pool is a great place for that.
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You've already gotten great advice. Just wanted to add, please don't feel bad if a meltdown happens. Kids are people not robots and you can't just control how they act all the time.
My dd is 4 and had a major meltdown after Dumbo because she didn't get the purple dumbo and was yelling at us we had to go again so she could get the purple one. Well yelling at Mom and Dad is not how you get what you want, Disney or not. She wouldn't stop and eventually had to sit in time out on the curb along the walkway in MK. Yes you might get some looks from people but the majority give you the 'We understand, we've been there too' looks of sympathy lol.
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Thank you everyone!! Great thoughts and advice. I definitely will plan to go with the flow!
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Just don't forget that even the best "huge planner" is at the mercy of her kids behavior / schedule / attitude. Have fun but be flexible, very flexible. LOL
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