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Old 12-09-2015, 08:29 PM   #16
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Many pixies for Lauren as she faces this first major adult decision. I have faced those what is several times but not for school - I knew where I wanted to go...to bad once I WS there I was miserable. I was determined to stick it out but in the end fate led me to transferring schools and I loved my second school. Son please remind her while she needs to give the decision great thought, if things don't work out for whatever reason she always has other options.
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I think there is too much pressure on her that this is a life altering decision. She is not committed for life but at most a semester. Kids can and do transfer (one of mine did and is richer for having experienced two schools. Kids also change their majors all the time. Even if she ends up in a completely different direction, she is very young and has many, many years to decided where she wants to end up.

I do not think the decisions that one makes at 17 really put them on an irreversible track. I have known people who have gone to professional school well into their 40's and 50's. A few even had to get an undergraduate degree first.

There are few decisions that cannot be changed. I encouraged my kids not to get involved in romantic relationships too young in large part because I don't think there is much benefit to the kids, it pushed kids to be sexually active earlier and having a child is one of the few decisions that will stay with you forever.

It is early in the year. Let her visit the schools and spend time in each. Spend at least one night on campus. She will find the one which feel right. And if non of them really grab her, she can take a year off, go to one with an eye towards transferring, or go locally and look for other options. There are usually many choices.

ETA: Teresa, take a deep breath. I know this is your baby but she will be fine. nothing is set in stone. Do not make her feel anxious about the future. Kids grow up so quickly but I think they just keep getting better.
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I agree with Huntermom. Playing the what if game is pointless. There's no way to know the answer & thinking about the what if's can be paralyzing.
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I think the most important thing is to allow as much of this as possible to be Lauren's decision. We all want what is best for our children, and sometimes their choices don't seem to make sense, but everything happens for a reason, I think.

My oldest received a full 4 year tuition, room and board scholarship to UNH upon graduation, and turned it down. Instead, she paid her way through a 2 year community college. Several years later - guess where she ended up - yes, at UNH, without the scholarship, and she finishes her pre-med degree this week. Neither she, nor I, would change a thing about the way she went about things. It has helped her become the wonderful woman she is.

My middle daughter applied to one school, went there all 4 years, and had a wonderful experience. She got her dream job on her graduation day, and hasn't looked back. She's now working full time, and finishing grad school.

My baby applied to 4, was accepted to all 4, and had a terrible time making her decision. Seriously, we were still weighing pros and cons at 11:00 pm on April 30th, the deadline decision date. She wanted me to tell her what to do, and I wouldn't. She finally decided upon St. John's, in NYC, far from our rural mountain home. She fully planned to do 1-2 years there, and then transfer somewhere warm, either Florida or California. Now she is a sophomore, loves it, and has no plans to attempt a transfer.

I don't think there is a wrong decision - she will learn from any choice she makes - it will either work, or it won't, and those are both valuable life lessons.

Enjoy the time with her while it lasts - it passes far too soon.
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