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PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.

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Old 02-08-2013, 09:58 AM   #16
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The last few months have been such a roller coaster in my life. We went on our first disney cruise in December and had the time of our lives. I still haven't started my trip report because of the roller coaster that has ensued since we returned. The week after we got back from the cruise I found out that I was pregnant with our third child....huge surprise since my youngest is 6...nonetheless we were ecstatic...then the first trimester morning sickness and exhaustion set in and when I wasn't at work I was on my couch sleeping. In fact the pregnancy and exhaustion forced me to cancel my trip to WDW in Feb for my birthday and to run the Princess Half.

Last week was the 12 week mark and I was finally starting to feel better and ready to start my trip report and share my amazing trip with you all. Unfortunately my world came crashing down on Friday when we were told that I had suffered a miscarriage and our precious baby was no longer alive. To say i have been crushed is an understatement....12 weeks was supposed to be that safe point in a pregnancy when the fear of miscarriage goes away.

I have spent the last week trying to physically recover and am slowly trying to get a grip on the emotional recovery. Ironically at this point I would love nothing more than to run away to the work or another cruise and forget about all of this....unfortunately that's not going to happen so I will forge ahead.....

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HUGE HUGE HUGE hugs!!!!!!!!!!! I lost my ds at 18.5 wk gestation. It was horrible. You feel as though you are in the "safe" zone and then you get slapped in the face with a m/c. It hurts so much. The grief is real. I found people dismissed it and gave "reasons" why it happened, which did NOT take away the pain. It hurt. It takes awhile to put it aside (you never forget it). It has been 8 yrs now. I still remember the date, and every Christmas, we put up his orinment on the tree. I have had a dd since then, but she isn't a replacement for ds. Yes, I have moved on, but I won't forget.
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I think for me, what hurt the most was that no-one knows what to say, so they pretend it never happened. Like that 3 months of my life simply vanished.
Give yourself time and space to grieve, and understand that others may seem distant not because they don't care, but because they really do not know what to say or do.
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There are no words. I also suffered a miscarriage at 18 weeks as well of our first child. I was devastated, my DH was shell shocked and didn't know what to say to me, we didn't live near family as DH was in the military... All this to say, so many of us know your pain. I still say a prayer on the day I lost our precious baby and the day that would have been her birthday and it's been 33 years. I say her, I don't know, my Dr thought I would 'get over it' faster if I didn't think of it as a 'real baby'. If you need to vent, cry rant, whatever, we are all here for you! We get it.

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Thank you all for the kind words. I have faith that when the time is right we will be blessed with another child
It took me awhile to get pregnant again, but it happened a few years later. It was my last chance...I turned 40 and I said I was finished trying after that point. I got pregnant June that yr. She is beautiful and very healthy.

Nana Tink: I am so sorry!!!! I don't know if what the dr said to you helped or not. I think that was the way things were done in the past. We had a grave side funeral for our little guy. And I too think of him every yr on the day that I lost him too-my dream got crushed that day. You don't forget...the pain goes away, but that child is always with you. My kids know about their brother, and we talk about him occassionally...he is still apart of us, even though we don't speak about him much. I had 3 children, but my ds is just not here physically but always in my heart. . Thankyou for sharing!!!!!
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