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Old 12-04-2011, 01:56 PM   #1
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For my friends with Fibro

I came across this slideshow "article" today and thought of you. I thought you might like to read it and maybe pass it along to your friends and family.

Top 10 Things NOT to Say to a Fibromyalgia Patient - Chronic Pain
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So very true, Thanks Pam!
I really like the "But you don't look sick" If I looked as bad as I feel I would scare little children !
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Thank you so much for posting that! I've just recently been diagnosed with an auto-immune disease that mimics fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue. It really sucks when people who don't understand at all how we feel start offering us "cures" and advice.
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Thank you so much for posting that! I've just recently been diagnosed with an auto-immune disease that mimics fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue. It really sucks when people who don't understand at all how we feel start offering us "cures" and advice.
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That applies to everyone. It is not in my head, working will not make it go away, and that new treatment does not even exist. I was told there was a wonder drug to cure celiac. My life is in triage and I have to choose laundry or clean the kitchen, for example, but healthy people do not understand that. People do not understand what it is like to have fibro, cancer, MS, or anything else until they have it.

Thanks for posting that, seen that on spoons board. Appreciate seeing it again.
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Thank you so much for posting. The one that gets to me the most is that some doctors say it's not a real disease. That one upsets me a lot and I have heard it said to me before. I know my pain is very real.
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Thank you so much for posting. The one that gets to me the most is that some doctors say it's not a real disease. That one upsets me a lot and I have heard it said to me before. I know my pain is very real.
It's not just that a lot of doctors don't think it's real, a lot of doctors actually make fun of patients behind their backs who list fibromyalgia as part of their medical history. I work in a very busy ER and I will tell you first hand that you will be treated differently if you put that on your medical history. Not by everyone, but by enough medical people that if I would never list it as a medical problem if I were diagnosed! When I see it on someone's history I try to be extra kind because I know how awful many doctors and nurses can be! On the other hand, there are some people who use the chronic pain as an excuse to not do anything and expect everything to be done for them and have such a "poor me" attitude that I know why medical staff feels the way they do! I have had chronic pain and other health issues on and off for over 20 years. I don't tell my co workers about it. But even when I am doing my best to be extra kind to someone with chronic pain issues, because I understand first hand what it IS like, it starts to get to me when the first thing out of someone's mouth is "I have end stage fibromyalgia." Really, I didn't know there was such a thing as "end stage fibromyalgia".
I loved that article!! It was great! It's all about compassion. It's easy to feel compassion for someone with a broken leg and a cast from toe to hip, but as human beings, we need to learn to be compassionate toward each other for all our human ways!
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It's not just that a lot of doctors don't think it's real, a lot of doctors actually make fun of patients behind their backs who list fibromyalgia as part of their medical history. I work in a very busy ER and I will tell you first hand that you will be treated differently if you put that on your medical history. Not by everyone, but by enough medical people that if I would never list it as a medical problem if I were diagnosed! When I see it on someone's history I try to be extra kind because I know how awful many doctors and nurses can be! On the other hand, there are some people who use the chronic pain as an excuse to not do anything and expect everything to be done for them and have such a "poor me" attitude that I know why medical staff feels the way they do! I have had chronic pain and other health issues on and off for over 20 years. I don't tell my co workers about it. But even when I am doing my best to be extra kind to someone with chronic pain issues, because I understand first hand what it IS like, it starts to get to me when the first thing out of someone's mouth is "I have end stage fibromyalgia." Really, I didn't know there was such a thing as "end stage fibromyalgia".
I loved that article!! It was great! It's all about compassion. It's easy to feel compassion for someone with a broken leg and a cast from toe to hip, but as human beings, we need to learn to be compassionate toward each other for all our human ways!
WOW! I can't imagine a doctor making fun of an ER patient because of a diagnosis! THat's pretty rude!

I think the people who come across someone like YOU are lucky. Thanks for this post!
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Sandra, None of them would EVER admit it, but it goes on all the time! I don't think it is because of the individual in front of them, and they never do it to their face. It is because of the years of stuff that we see in the ER and the "oddities" that come through our doors. though some people are honest, and truthful about what is going on with them physically, there are just as many people who tell very tall tales just to try and get narcotics prescriptions. The problem is some docs and nurses become hard and don't look at each person as an individual! Yes there are a lot of crazy people out there and I am not talking about mental illness! I am talking about people who do "stupid" things. But I don't think we should categorize or judge everyone by their disease! The same way one shouldn't judge every diabetic patient in DKA. Yes, some diabetics in DKA come in to the hospital because they have not taken care of themselves, but others in DKA do care of themselves very well! (DKA is diabetic ketoacidosis and is a state when a diabetic patient is extremely ill.)
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