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Old 03-08-2011, 06:10 PM   #106
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I was 21 when I got married. I was too young. I spent a lot of years second guessing that decision. I have known people that got married the same age and were definately ready . Ironically out of those people, me and DH are still together after 23 years and they are divorced. I think marriage is hard at any age. It is a constantly changing entity and it takes a lot to learn to roll with it. It has just been the last number of years that we have started to really "settle into " our marriage and begin to understand it. I don't know if that makes sense or not to anybody else.
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I got married when I was 24, I'm 30 now and will celebrate my 3rd anniversary of my divorce on 3/19. I don't think I was young at the time... my ex had gotten back from Iraq and decided he didn't want to be married anymore.

I'm putting that the nicest way possible.
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I was 21 when I got married. I was too young. I spent a lot of years second guessing that decision. I have known people that got married the same age and were definately ready . Ironically out of those people, me and DH are still together after 23 years and they are divorced. I think marriage is hard at any age. It is a constantly changing entity and it takes a lot to learn to roll with it. It has just been the last number of years that we have started to really "settle into " our marriage and begin to understand it. I don't know if that makes sense or not to anybody else.

It makes perfect sense!
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I was 21 when I got married. I was too young. I spent a lot of years second guessing that decision. I have known people that got married the same age and were definately ready . Ironically out of those people, me and DH are still together after 23 years and they are divorced. I think marriage is hard at any age. It is a constantly changing entity and it takes a lot to learn to roll with it. It has just been the last number of years that we have started to really "settle into " our marriage and begin to understand it. I don't know if that makes sense or not to anybody else.
Makes sense to me!
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I met my DH when I was in my senior year of HS. I liked him immediately. He liked me, but didn't want to date me. He didn't ask me out for 3 years, although we were friends all that while, dating others. What surprises me is how I found a really nice person at such a young age, and was smart enough to know that.
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I met my DH when I was 18. We waited 10 yrs to get married (we were engaged for 2 of those 10yrs). We both finished college, started our careers, traveled and bought our home. We'll be married for 4 yrs. this June. I'm very happy we waited to settle down and get married. We've been able to see and do a lot and we are very lucky. Plus, I don't think were mature enough to get married in our 20's. He was too caught up in his rock band. I was busy w/school and having fun following him to gigs
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Married at age 21 and we're going on our 22nd year of marriage. Whew! The funny thing is, my DD is 20 and I don't want her to get married for a loooooong time. I wanted to be married and start a family early, whereas, my DD is still in college, will be traveling to Italy this summer, and plans on starting a career before she even thinks about marriage.

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Judi: Thankyou!!! I know we are a growing trend and it is great to see others with children at our age!!!!!!!! I didn't plan to wait that long but I had difficulites getting pregnant, and we had waited until we had better finances etc. Then after my ds who I had at 36 yrs old, I had numerous m/c and even lost my baby boy at 18 1/2 wks gestation when I was 38. After a few more early m/c, I finally got pregnant with my dd at age 40 and had her 2 mths after I turned 41 It is abit different having kids at our age but alot better than when our parents had us. Although our grandparents generation had kids at our age but it missed our parents
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I met my DH when I was 18. We waited 10 yrs to get married (we were engaged for 2 of those 10yrs). We both finished college, started our careers, traveled and bought our home. We'll be married for 4 yrs. this June. I'm very happy we waited to settle down and get married. We've been able to see and do a lot and we are very lucky. Plus, I don't think were mature enough to get married in our 20's. He was too caught up in his rock band. I was busy w/school and having fun following him to gigs
Sounds like you guys were really smart about it .
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