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Old 12-04-2009, 07:37 AM   #31
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No you did not do any thing wrong. I think you handled it perfectly. I am very sorry for your loss.
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Old 12-04-2009, 07:40 AM   #32
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I'm so sorry for your loss. It was wrong and insensitive of her to ask. You should not feel badly at all.
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I am so sorry for your loss. If you want my honest opinion she doesn't deserve you as a friend. It's one thing to make the mistake of sending you the request but to unfriend you when you were being honest is selfish and insensitive. I hope you are surrounded by people who bring you comfort.
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I would have done the same thing and I am very sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss
You dd the right thing to send her that message and perhaps she will actually pay attention to who she sends requests to , in her effort to drum up bussiness.

Was she a friend or some one you knew in Real life or just someone who friended you.
If you don't know the person , then I would just let it go. If its someone yo know in Rl and see occasionally, then she just may be embarrassed by her insensitve request and knows no other way to handle it. My guess is that her Friend ship requests are built on lack of business ethics or lack there of.

Focus on the people who care aout you and will support you and care about you during your time of healing. Take Care of yourself and know there are People who care .
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Thanks again everyone. She is someone I know in "real life" but hardly ever see. I would not have put her in the "friend" category even before, but an acquaintance. I really do have lots of people that are being supportive and I realize I don't need to let her get to me. You guys are really great people.
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Like I tell my DH all the time. People are crazy.. I'm sorry for your loss.
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I agree with everyone that you did the right thing. Even if she hadn't known, she could have apologized instead of unfriending you. You're better off.

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You absolutely did the right thing. There is no harm in telling her to cease and desist with those types of messages and why you are asking . . . what WAS wrong is that she removed you for no reason. It almost seems as if the only reason she even had you on there was as a potential customer . . . IMO, that is really not a friend if they do something like that. :

If it were me, I would have done the same thing, sending her a message. And if she would have taken offense and just couldn't understand and kept doing it, then I would have unfriended HER.

So sorry you are going through this.
I totally agree and I to am very sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Try not to think one more second about your "unfriend." Good riddance to her and her insensitive, greedy ways.
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I'm very sorry for your loss

I think you did the right thing. The timing of her request was a little insensitive. I wouldn't feel bad at all about telling her that either.
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Sorry for your loss. It was very insensitive of her in the first place and then her reaction was inappropriate.
If she was truly your friend she should have sent you back a note of apology.
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