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Old 08-29-2003, 10:38 AM   #16
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Dated just over a year. Engaged a year and a half. Happily married ever since [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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Old 08-29-2003, 11:34 AM   #17
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We dated 3 months. We spent very little on the wedding because we called our parents and told them we were getting married the next Friday. I rented a kneeling bench and bought her a bouquet. He mother made her a veil. She wore a dress she already had and a pair of shoes I sold her (I worked in a shoe store) before we started dating.

Cost of wedding must not mean much to longivity of marriage....next April will be 40 years.
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Old 08-29-2003, 11:42 AM   #18
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Paul says "for our next wedding, let's go to Vegas and get married by an Elvis impersonator." Sounds good to me! LOL
<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Arial">Nancy, my brother and SIL did this last year to renew their vows. They opted for the older, fatter Elvis and got the video and everything. He said the cheesier, the better. It was a hoot to watch! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

DH asked me to marry him within 3 weeks, we waited another 6 months before he did it officially with a ring. And we were married 8 months later.

Last week was 14 years. [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]
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Old 08-29-2003, 01:06 PM   #19
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engaged 9 months(had to wait to get married till I turned 18!LOL!!)

Wedding cost 7,000. Big discounts because church was free(my church I grew up in) and had reception on the base, so it was cheaper...

Has lasted 15 years, so I guess it was a good investment!LOL!!

I got my dress on clearance too. 100.00. The veil was actually more than the ddress!@!
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Old 08-29-2003, 01:29 PM   #20
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Hmmm, the first time I was engaged it was for three years before I called it off. I had gotten my dress on sale for $99. Our bridal shop in town was going out of business. Originally it was $1800. I gave it to a childhood girlfriend who had like no money when she was getting married. I wanted nothing to do with it after I broke up with the guy.

The second (and much better) time I was engaged, we dated for 1 month and were engaged for 9 months. The whole wedding including dress, food, cake, decorations, etc. was around $4000. My folks paid for nothing and DH's folks paid for the food at the reception, about $1500 for 350+ guests.
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I forgot to add cost! And it's my favorite part!

I honestly don't think our wedding cost more than $1500 to $2000...and it was HUGE (500 guests)!

*We bought my dress on sale: $300
*The church was free (and gorgeous)
*We had the reception in the new banquet hall at the camp I grew up in
*All our flowers were given as a gift (and there were TONS of flowers!)
*Our limo was a gift
*The FOUNTAIN at our reception was loaned to us
*Rehearsal dinner was a gift and it was held at my church so that was either free or inexpensive
*People volunteered to provide much of the food at the reception
*I made my own cake (I do that as a hobby)
*Jason's tux was a gift from the same lady that did our flowers
*My best friend is a photographer and he did all of our pics
*My roommate was our pianist, in exchange for the wedding cake I'd done for her two weeks before
*Our musicians (and I was sooo picky about music: had to have or be in pursuit of a music degree...I didn't want my guests to suffer!)were friends
*We rented a massive arch thingy for $150

Hmmm...I think that's all...and the funny thing was, no one asked for any of this and none of these people who gave things or services knew each other! It was truly a blessing...I think for all the wonderful things my parents have done for people in the past! [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

My dad's brother said something kind of snotty about having such a big wedding and going into debt. Daddy just smiled and told him the truth!
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Double post!!! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif[/img]
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We were engaged for 11 months and the wedding cost around $20,000-25,000. It was worth it because we both really enjoyed the entire day and I felt like a princess.
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DH and I dated for about a month before I asked him to marry me. We were at a tatoo party at his boss's house when I popped the question. DH was hospitalized the following day for emergency gall bladder surgery. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] We got married about 13 months later. [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] I didn't want to take any chances that he'd think I was bad luck and head for the hills! [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

The cost was minimal. I have a list much like Lanie's.

- Cake - a gift made by my Aunt Verlo (Ruth).
- Photos - a gift from my Aunt Tandra.
- Dress - a gift made by my mother.
- Flowers - got a friend's employee discount at A.C. Moore for all-silk flowers, who then arranged them as a gift to us. $200
- No limo - DH and I preferred his truck as our getaway car.
- Reception for 100 guests - a gift from my dad. $800
- Food provided at cost as a gift from DH's friends who own a Pizza place and catered the wedding for free.
- DH's tux - $100
- Ceremony - a gift from DH's friend's dad, Judge Whitesell.
- Hall - $300 - same hall where both of our parents had their receptions - the Pen Argyl Community Center.
- DJ for the wedding and reception - a gift from DH's dad. about $500.
- Hair (for myself nd DH) - done by my Aunt Jody and DH's brother's girlfriend. The only 2 stylists we know. [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img]


I think that covers everything. [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img]

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Dated for 3 months before I asked her, but knew she was the one within a month. [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img] Then it took her a month to make her mind. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] Can you believe that? Make up her mind over me? She came to her senses and we were engaged for 8 months.

We paid for most of the wedding ourselves but, I have no idea how much we spent on it. [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
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Another donated wedding here! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

We got married at 18 (Craig was kind of on the way [img]graemlins/blush.gif[/img] ). We actually got married twice in one day, once at my church, and then at his.

Paid around $100 for my dress, which was purchased the same day at the mall as the $30 bridesmaid dresses.

The reception was in my church's fellowship hall - the music was LP's played on my stereo.

Flowers - donated by bridesmaid's mom
Cake - donated by other bridesmaid's mom
Food - some purchased by my parents; most made and donated by the ladies at church
Pictures - taken by maid of honor's boyfriend, and their gift to us

Honeymoon - two nights at the Marriot here in Pittsburgh, but Andy had to work the day after the wedding, so I sat and watched Pink Panther cartoons. He also read a book about coachroaches.

The wedding was fine as is, but I think I'm still owed a honeymoon! 25th is coming up in 2005! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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