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Old 09-16-2007, 05:30 PM   #1
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I feel the need to "help"...

Just found out that DD's teacher's family is going to WDW just a few weeks after us, b/c her DH has a convention/mtg there. They're only going for 4 days, but it's their first time. I feel the compelling need to "help" her, even though she hasn't asked me. I teach at DD's school, so I know her teacher a little more than just through my DD. I don't think I'll buy her a Passporter, but I do think I'll advise her on some ADRs, and good rides/attractions for her kiddos. Also, since we'll be there about 2 weeks prior, I'll pick up maps for her too.

Have any of you felt compelled to "help" even though you weren't asked? I just want her to have the best trip possible!!
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Old 09-16-2007, 05:44 PM   #2
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I've often chipped in advice (and a plug for the Passporter!) when people I know are going. I don't think anyone has ever been offended. It's not quite the same as giving unwanted child-rearing or relationship advice...
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Old 09-16-2007, 05:56 PM   #3
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Like the PP I usually mention to them about or "allow" them to borrow my PassPorter. And, then throw in a few suggestions. If they haven't been before and they haven't done the research they usually don't have a clue, LOL
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Whenever I hear someone is planning a trip to WDW, I try to offer advice, especially if it's their first time and they are bringing children. It just breaks my heart when I hear about a family that was miserable because they didn't know about Fastpass or making ADR's.
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I'm getting our friends the 2008 Passporter for Christmas.....they're going with us on our trup next summer. It should be interesting.....I'm the uber-planner, and they are the go-with-the-flow people......while I know we'll be spending our vacations together, I don't want them to think that they have to spend 100% of their time with us. They have 2 girls, and we have a boy, so I'm sure there is stuff they will want to do on their own!!!
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Yeah...I know what you mean. Are you past the 180 marker??? I would ask if they thought of restaurants yet, or if they've made ADR's. That is a good ice breaker. If they say no, they you can so "oh, well we're doing this". Usually people will start asking questions...and you can slip in your advice! I was so excited when my cousin asked me to help her plan her WDW vacation! (She knew I was the one to ask!! I did tell her to buy a Passporter, first and foremost!!)
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Yeah...I know what you mean. Are you past the 180 marker??? I would ask if they thought of restaurants yet, or if they've made ADR's. That is a good ice breaker. If they say no, they you can so "oh, well we're doing this". Usually people will start asking questions...and you can slip in your advice! I was so excited when my cousin asked me to help her plan her WDW vacation! (She knew I was the one to ask!! I did tell her to buy a Passporter, first and foremost!!)
They've never been to WDW, and they're going in about 4 weeks! It's a last minute, bring the family along on the work trip vacation. I think tomorrow I'll give her WDW dining's phone # and some suggestions of places her girls might like. I don't want to overwhelm her, but I want them to have the most fun they can!
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I've done it...in conversation with my boss mentioned if she needed any tips I would be happy to help her. Ended up planning her trip (which I had so mych fun doing...since I cannot go yet it was fun just planning hers)...

Since then got calls from some other people at the company aksing can I help plan their trips...(maybe I should start a Disney Trvel Agency on the side...lol)

Figure that should keep me busy till my trip gets closer...YEAH
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I'm just like that. The second someone says that they're thinking of going to Disney, I immediately tell them that if they need any help or advice, I'll do whatever I can to help them out.
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I'm glad you're helping; particularly since you know her thru the school, I think it wouldn't be a problem to "help" a little. I think too many folks go not knowing what they're getting into. I would even encourage her A Lot to make that ADR call...
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I think I understand your conflict (in that she's not only a colleague -- where helping wouldn't raise an eyebrow -- but she's also your daughter's teacher and you don't want to be seen as interfering or sucking up.)

I would drop a note in her mailbox giving her the URL for PassPorter and then offering to help in any way you can. But, I'd avoid pressing too hard.

Generally, I find that I don't have to offer. People who know me (especially those who regularly tease me about my Disney obsession) seek me out for advice. But... perfect strangers are often leapt upon in grocery stores and check-out lines if I "overhear" (read "eavesdrop") their Disney conversations

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