As of January 1, 2019, we have closed our forums. This is a decision we did not come to lightly, but it is necessary. The software our forums run on is just too out-of-date and it poses a significant security risk. The server software itself must be updated, and it cannot be without removing the forums.
So it is with a heavy heart that we say goodbye to our long-running forums. They came online in 2000 and brought together so many wonderful Disney fans. We had friendships form, careers launch, couples marry, children born ... all because of this amazing community.
Thank you to each of you who were a part of this community. You made it possible.
And a very special thank you to our Guides (moderators), past and present, who kept our forums a happy place to be. You are the glue that held everything together, and we are forever grateful to you. Thank you aliceinwdw, Caldercup, MrsM, WillCAD, Fortissimo, GingerJ, HiddenMickey, CRCrazy, Eeyoresmom, disneyknut, disneydani, Cam22, chezp, WDWfan, Luvsun, KMB733, rescuesk, OhToodles!, Colexis Mom, lfredsbo, HiddenMickey, DrDolphin, DopeyGirl, duck addict, Disneybine, PixieMichele, Sandra Bostwick, Eeyore Tattoo, DyanKJ130, Suzy Q'Disney, LilMarcieMouse, AllisonG, Belle*, Chrissi, Brant, DawnDenise, Crystalloubear, Disneymom9092, FanOfMickey, Goofy4Goofy, GoofyMom, Home4us123, iamgrumpy, ilovedisney247, Jennifer2003, Jenny Pooh, KrisLuvsDisney, Ladyt, Laughaholic88, LauraBelle Hime, Lilianna, LizardCop, Loobyoxlip, lukeandbrooksmom, marisag, michnash, MickeyMAC, OffKilter_Lynn, PamelaK, Poor_Eeyore, ripkensnana, RobDVC, SHEANA1226, Shell of the South, snoozin, Statelady01, Tara O'Hara, tigger22, Tink and Co., Tinkerbelz, WDWJAMBA, wdwlovers, Wendyismyname, whoSEZ, WildforWD, and WvuGrrrl. You made the magic.
We want to personally thank Sara Varney, who coordinated our community for many years (among so many other things she did for us), and Cheryl Pendry, our Message Board Manager who helped train our Guides, and Ginger Jabour, who helped us with the PassPorter-specific forums and Live! Guides. Thank you for your time, energy, and enthusiasm. You made it all happen.
There are other changes as well.
Why? Well, the world has changed. And change with it, we must. The lyrics to "We Go On" for IllumiNations say it best:
We go on to the joy and through the tears
We go on to discover new frontiers
Moving on with the current of the years.
We go on
Moving forward now as one
Moving on with a spirit born to run
Ever on with each rising sun.
To a new day, we go on.
It's time to move on and move forward.
PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.
But eventually, we must move on and move forward. It is the right thing to do.
So we are retiring this newsletter, as we simply cannot keep up with it. Many thanks to Mouse Fan Travel who supported it all these years, to All Ears and MousePlanet who helped us with news, to our many article contributors, and -- most importantly -- to Sara Varney who edited our newsletter so wonderfully for years and years.
And we are no longer charging for the Live Guides. If you have a subscription, it's yours to keep for the lifetime of the Live Guides at no additional cost. The Live Guides will stay online, barring server issues and technical problems, for all of 2019.
That said, PassPorter is not going away. Most of the resources will remain online for as long as we can support them, and after that we will find ways to make whatever we can available. PassPorter means a great deal to us, and to many of you, and we will do our best to keep it alive in whatever way we can. Our server costs are high, and they'll need to come out of our pockets, so in the future you can expect some changes so we can bring those costs down.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your amazing support over the years. Without you, there's no way us little guys could have made something like this happen and given the "big guys" a run for their money. PassPorter was consistently the #3 guidebook after the Unofficial and Official guides, which was really unheard of for such a small company to do. We ROCKED it thanks to you and your support and love!
If you miss us, you can still find some of us online. Sara started a new blog at DisneyParkPrincess.com -- I strongly urge you to visit and get on her mailing list. She IS the Disney park princess and knows Disney backward and forward. And I am blogging as well at JenniferMaker.com, which is a little craft blog I started a couple of years ago to make ends meet. You can see and hear me in my craft show at https://www.youtube.com/c/jennifermaker . Many PassPorter readers and fans are on Facebook, in groups they formed like the PassPorter Trip Reports and PassPorter Crafting Challenge (if you join, just let them know you read about it in the newsletter). And some of our most devoted community members started a forum of their own at Pixie Dust Lane and all are invited over.
So we encourage you to stay in touch with us and your fellow community members wherever works best for you!
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I may be being a bit too girly but I'm really sad. My boyfriend is going to California for a few weeks to be in his cousin's wedding. He has never been to CA so his cousin took off the week before the wedding to take him out fishing and camping, the things they did when they were kids. He's going by train so that adds a week of travel time going there and back. What's got me sad is that we went out to breakfast yesterday morning and he leaves tomorrow morning. Last night on our before bed phone call, he said that he was alright not seeing me before he left, that it "wasn't the end of the world" if he didn't say goodbye before he left. That kinda of made me cry, well not kind of, it just plain did. So that started an arguement, cause I was disappointed, I wanted to see him. I'm not the clingy type, nor was I ever a "huggy person" until I met him. He's the one that kind of got me to be more openly affectionate. Now I feel blown off and unimportant when I know he has a lot to do before he leaves. What's my problem?
My DH would have said the same thing- but not meant it. Guys (warning - large generalization ahead - proceed with caution) tend to cover up their feelings by making it seem as if they aren't affected by the things that may upset them.
I'm sure he'll miss you too, but he's also looking forward to seeing his cousin.
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I agree with Teresa. Most guys don't think anything of it. Just as long as they think you're there waiting for them, then off they go without a backwards glance.
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I certainly can't explain men for you nor am I going to try! I seem to have no idea how or what they think and when they think it, but I hope it all works out for you! I know it really stinks to be hurt when you lay it out there for someone!
My husband gave me the best piece of advice regarding men when we began dating. He told me to stop before I said anything to him or asked him a question and think to myself, "Remember, he's an idiot." Lowers your expectations a bit. Always helps to remind me that he and I do not think the same way and he'll say things that seem insensitive to me that he thought nothing of.
Something else to remember - guys are just as likely to slug a friend as hug him by way of a greeting. We, in the way of women, would never consider such a thing. Just proves we express our affection differently, too.
So the night before he leaves, he calls about 10 times. He makes some off handed remark about how I'm not going to be at the train station when he leaves. I offer to take him and then suddenly that's the best thing I could have said. I help him in the moring pack up to go and drive to the station. He's all huggy and nervous. Even though he's travelling with four other family members, I'm the only one who knows he has major anxiety issues when he travels. About ten minutes before he leaves, he couldn't even talk because he was trying not to cry. They say women are moody. :rollseyes:
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Lowers your expectations a bit. 
Always helps to remind me that he and I do not think the same way and he'll say things that seem insensitive to me that he thought nothing of. 
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