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Old 11-28-2004, 07:12 PM   #1
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I can\'t stop crying

25 yrs ago my parents sold the house I grew up in and moved into a senior apartment. 20 yrs ago my dad died. 3 months ago my incredible 92 yr old mother went into a nursing home. Today, I just moved the last piece of furniture out of that apartment. This was the last place I saw my wonderful father alive & healthy. This was the last place I saw my brother who was 12 years older than I am, alive. This was the last place that I remember my mom being whole and it's tearing me apart that I have to walk away from it. It's like I've just lost them all again. It makes me so angry that after 92 yrs of living that all my mom has to show for her life is a chair, a chest of drawers and a television. It's just not fair and it's not right! Except for my daughter Melissa (24), I am the only member of my family in Connecticut and it was up to me to break the apartment down and I didn't mind doing it. But now that it's over, saying goodbye to all the memories is almost more than I can take. I'm sorry to sit here and sob to you all but I needed to put my feelings out in words. Thank you for listening.
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Old 11-28-2004, 07:18 PM   #2
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How very sad for you and how terribly hard. I can only hope that one day soon you will be able to look back on the wonderful memories of that place and find joy in them to replace the pain you feel now. Sending you tons of comforting .
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You guys have me tearing up today First Maureen with her wonderful Mom story & now your sad story...
I remember so well cleaning out my Mothers house , after she died & then more recently my Gramdmothers apartment, before she died.. it was heartbreaking both ways but more so with my Mom..
Feel free to come here & vent anytime!!
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Oh Beth, I am so sorry. I have been there but in my case it was my Grandmother's house. It is so hard. But you don't have to say goodbye to the memories, just the place. I'm sure you have things from your parents that will always remind you of them. We have some furniture in our home that was my Grandparents and nothing makes me smile more than seeing Ryan chewing on the ottoman that is older than my mother! Of course, nothing makes me sadder than the fact that they aren't here to see their great-grandchild.

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I'm terribly sorry to hear of your loss, because that is what it is! <<<HUGS>>>

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Beth here's a hug I remember well cleaning out my Mom and Dad house when they died a week apart...it was heart breaking...I also remember last year cleaning out my husbands clothes. It hurts so bad (I'm crying all over again just remembering it). We're here when you need to talk and I promise we'll listen. Cry all you want sometimes it's all that helps.
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Beth I am so sorry. My grandparents had to sell the house that my grandfather' father build a few years ago. My family had a huge gararge sale and sold off most of my grand parents possions. I am so glad I wasn't (I live in Michigan my family lives in VT and NH) there for that because I knew I would have been balling!

You are a very caring person to be there for your folks!! Just hold on tight to your memories you will never lose those!
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My mother passed away in 2000, my dad continues to live in the house but he does not enter my moms bedroom. But today we went christmas shopping and when we got back. He said let's put all of this on your moms bed. I almost couldn't open the door. When the door was opened it was like i stepped back in time. Nothing had changed. My dad hasn't moved anything!! I just keep telling my self baby steps! and I think my dad and i did that today!!
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