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Old 06-06-2004, 11:46 PM   #1
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Well, I finally got the news today that I thought I was prepared for but I guess I was fooling myself. My grandma has been beating the odds for almost 5 years and is just a medical marvel especially these last few weeks. She finally had to be put in a nursing home the first part of April and pretty much for the last two months hasn't been eating or drinking much at all. She was already skin and bones but somehow her body held on even after she had decided it was time to go.
Well to make a long story short my parents called today and said the end is near. She is filling up with fluid and her lungs are almost full as of 6pm PST so sometime tonight or tomm morning my beloved Grandma will be gone. I know she will be very happy in Heaven seeing my Boppa. However, as one left behind I am just sad. I tried to explain to my 4yr old DD and she was so understanding that it made me cry even more. She totally understood that her Grandma was going to see Jesus and even looked at me and said everything will be ok and just put her arm around me and gave me a big hug! Well needless to say the buckets of tears really came pouring down then.
I just thought I was ready and would be able to handle the news but so far I am not doing well. Thanks for listening. It is so nice to come here where nobody gets upset with you and just lets you talk as you need to. Thanks again!
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Old 06-07-2004, 12:08 AM   #2
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I'm sorry for your loss. I know how hard it can be. Just remember that loving and remembering your grandmother is what she needs most. As you said she will be ok in heaven and in a much better place than a nursing home.

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Your grandmother and family are in my prayers.
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I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandma. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
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Sorry to hear of your grandmother. I know what it feels like as I just went through the same thing. My grandmother who was my only grandparent left passed away this November. We burried her the day before Thanksgiving. She too was finally placed in a nursing home and went through the same things. It was difficult for me because she had lived with myself and my parents for 18yrs. I was used to her always being there.

Prayers are with you and your family at this time!
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Condolences to you and the whole family.
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Dianna, I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
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I'm so sorry. I'm sending you and your family a ton of pixie dust to help you all get through this hard time.

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We're never really prepared for death no matter how much we think we are. I know that she would not want you to be sad for long, but to remember the wonder times you had together. We're all behind you.
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I'm very sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family .

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I'm sorry that your family seems to be having such a rough time at the moment. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

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I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother Your family will be in my prayers. It is so amazing how small children are able to understand in times like this.
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