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Old 07-01-2012, 03:12 PM   #1
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Sometimes it's hard, but it's worth it.

Condensing a long story; one of the grandkids did something they had both been told not to do. Of course, when presented with the evidence, they both denied it, even when privileges were taken away. Finally, after almost 24 hours of struggling with ourselves, and a few conversations with the kids, the guilty party stepped forward. She was so relieved to have the guilt off her heart, she burst into tears. And then she cried even more when she found out she wasn't going to be punished. We just wanted the truth. "you really do love me, don't you?" And then grandma started crying!
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Sounds like DGD can get so much from some love and consistency. Have you asked step-son if they can stay with you? It sounds like neither his wife or he has much interest in parenting and they may be relieved if someone else will take over.
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You are making such a difference in those kids' lives. You are making a lasting impression that they will hopefully take with them and use when they are with their parents. Good job
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Sounds like DGD can get so much from some love and consistency. Have you asked step-son if they can stay with you? It sounds like neither his wife or he has much interest in parenting and they may be relieved if someone else will take over.
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Have you asked step-son if they can stay with you? It sounds like neither his wife or he has much interest in parenting and they may be relieved if someone else will take over.
We've tried, repeatedly. Especially when they were living in a tent in NM for 4 months. We've tried selling it as a "the kids need some stability", "the kids need schools that are going to challenge them more", "Dad would love to see the kids more - why don't we keep them during the school year so you don't have to worry about the homework, lunches, etc. and you can have them at Christmas and summer - the fun times!!" NOPE. The answer is always "We're doing okay right now."
Thing is, I think they really do care for the kids. They have called twice to talk to them and see how things are going. They're always really interested in hearing what the kids are doing, or at least they appear to be from the amount of time the kids are on the phone. They just have no clue and don't want to have a clue about what a responsible parent does. They think the school is who should teach them everything from behavior in public to maths. (and they're doing oh, such a great job at that!!) Of course, they also get money not only from welfare and food stamps, but the tribe. The kids have to be back by late July because they have to be presented to the tribal council representative (to prove they exist). Upon their appearance, the parents will be given what I understand to be $250 for each kid for school supplies, plus a voucher for clothes and shoes. Can't make money if you don't have the kids.
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I've been following this story and all I can say is you are amazing! I'm not sure how I would handle this situation but I hope I'd be as compassionate as you've been. Those poor children. They are so blessed to have you and their grandfather in their lives.
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So it sounds like the little girl at least gets what being a parent means. You are right that their parents probably do love them , just the priorities are mixed up and out of order. Its sad that the children have no choices, but the parents have all the choices
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I've been following this story and all I can say is you are amazing! I'm not sure how I would handle this situation but I hope I'd be as compassionate as you've been. Those poor children. They are so blessed to have you and their grandfather in their lives.
Thank you so much. You wouldn't believe what that means to me. I've had so many inner battles about whether we're doing the correct things. Is it fair to bombard them with so many rules that most kids already just know because that's the way they've been raised? They're doing much better, just in the few days we've had them. And, I'm a little calmer and less ticked about them being here. Plus, thanks to that little crying session Engel and I had, I realized I do care very deeply for her. The jury is still out on Dameon.
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Thank you so much. You wouldn't believe what that means to me. I've had so many inner battles about whether we're doing the correct things. Is it fair to bombard them with so many rules that most kids already just know because that's the way they've been raised? They're doing much better, just in the few days we've had them. And, I'm a little calmer and less ticked about them being here. Plus, thanks to that little crying session Engel and I had, I realized I do care very deeply for her. The jury is still out on Dameon.
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