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Old 12-14-2011, 01:52 PM   #1
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husband not a dw fan

Just got back from my trip toDW and my husbands 1st trip and he hated it.as matter fact he took early flight back home 3 days before end of trip and it left me and my sister there for 3 days without him which was more relaxing for me because i knew he wasnt happy there. Oh well to each his own
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Old 12-14-2011, 05:23 PM   #2
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I totally feel your pain, my DH hated it as well. He went our first trip and the second he only stayed 4 days and went home and me and my girls stayed the whole week. We now go without him. He enjoyed seeing our girls experience it for the first time, but that was about it!
I get really envious when I am on the boards and reading about all the families and couples who have husbands that enjoy it just as much as they do. I see a lot of sister and/ or me and my mother trips when my girls are grown and gone.
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I am one of the lucky ones. My husband loves Disney. And we don't have kids, so that's a really good thing. I don't know what I'd do if he didn't like it.
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I am very Lucky.. My DH knows how much I look forward to my Vacations at WDW.. The way he looks at it, if going makes me Happy, well DH is happy too!!!!.. My DH is a wonderful man. He really his hunting and fishing.. I really my trips to Disney!!!
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I'm sorry I hope the remainder of your trip was fun.
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my dh doesn't Hate it, but he could go without, he basically goes for the food.
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my dh doesn't Hate it, but he could go without, he basically goes for the food.
Very cute family pic!
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Thanks! I love it, I was so surprised that the first one was the most perfect!
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Yep, my DH hates it too. In fact, after our last trip I told him he doesn't need to go again for 3 more years. Unfortunately, he's going again next Thanksgiving! He sucks it up and goes for the kids, but he does NOT enjoy it. But he puts on a good act for the kids, they don't know he's not having fun. He's really good that way. As soon as my youngest is maybe like 8 or 9 (that would make my others 10 and 12), then I really won't need his help anymore and I'll just go alone with the kids!! Works for me!
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I'm sorry that happened. What were the things that he didn't like about it?
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my dh doesn't Hate it, but he could go without, he basically goes for the food.

Sounds like my DH. The only way I get him excited about WDW is when I plan our ADRs. He's not a fan of touring the parks. If it was up to him he's take another Disney cruise. At least there it's not always Disney 24/7 in your face. I think that's why he likes it. Oh ya, that and the food!
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I too am sorry to hear he didn't enjoy it. Like HiddenMickey asked, was there something in specific he didn't like? Was it crowded and he didn't expect it? Were you touring commando style and rushing from place to place so everything was a blur to him? Maybe if you know what he didn't like about it, you could plan another trip done differently where maybe he could find the magic and enjoy it (would he even be willing to do a new trip done differently?). If not, then you just have to leave him home then by himself and you have all the fun.
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My DH went the first time with the kids and did not enjoy it. We go every year for Spring Break and he stays home. He's usually busy at work anyway. He doesn't like crowds or lines and is more into thrill rides. We do another vacation during the year and I pretty much let him decide where we go then. As far as WDW goes, the kids and I have a much better time without him asking how much everything costs, wanting to sleep in (what?!), and not wanting ot wait in any line over 20 minutes (we'll come back later...famous last words).
Good luck finding a solution to your situation. Hopefully you can find a solution that allows you both to have the vacation you desire.
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