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Old 10-28-2011, 12:52 AM   #1
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Family Issues - Needing Pixies and Hugs

Ok so this is not so much a new issues as one that is on a never ending cycle in my life it seems.
It is my parents. To not make this the worlds longest post my parents relationship is very lopsided. To me I wonder sometimes why they are even still together, the way they speak to one another sometimes is crazy. My mom will act like a teenager and my father will be a bully. My father is never physical but it can definitely make people feel uncomfortable, or me at the very least.

Recently my father has been a rather awful to my mother, even more bullying. To top it off my father had a problem with alcohol. He stopped drinking for a few years but has recently started again. He never went through any professional help and clearly he needed to. He likes to pretend he has no problem but he does.....it causes a rift in our relationship because of some mistakes he has made.

Well my sister and BIL have noticed how rude my father has been. And of course my mother will tell me her and him are arguing and not getting along and he is getting mad and yelling at her for things. It is making everyone uncomfortable and my sister believes the stuff is going to hit the fan soon. She really thinks we need to say something to him to let him know we definitely do not approve of what is going on. My mother will never say anything to him because she was always a stay at home mom and financially definitely cannot stand on her own. She is very dependent on him and I definitely think he uses that to his advantage.

The whole situation is just making me so uncomfortable and makes me feel so physically yucky. I actually moved away to seperate myself from their relationship to some degree because I walways said I did not want one like theirs. However my desire for the people I love to be happy makes me unable to ignore it. Plus with my baby coming soon I definitely do not want to place him or her in a situation I am uncomfortable with.

So I guess this was a long post but really what I am hoping for is pixies and hugs that we can get this figured out without it becoming a huge deal. It is making me feel so stressed and I know that is not good. I just want peace.

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