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Old 06-30-2011, 10:16 AM   #1
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Unhappy very frustrated people don't know how to RSVP!

my daughter's grad party is today. On the invitation , she wanted me to put RSVP even though I have always put regrets only. So now that the day is here, and have only heard from a handful of people, I've started to contact people - and everyone I have, have said they can't make it! UGH!!! ( even my own best friend from college !) I have $500 worth of food coming, and I just want the party to be a success for my daughter. Why are people so clueless??? Thanks for letting me vent. I hope we have a decent crowd. : (
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So sorry that many guests did not respond.

Celebrate with who does come and enjoy their company rather than focusing on those who didn't make it.
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I'm so sorry!!! I hate it when people don't let you know if they're coming. I also hate it when they say yes and then don't come!

I hope that the party ends up being a blast anyway and that you all have a good time.
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thank you, I know you're right - I think I'm just worried that there will be so much food and no one to eat it.
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When the party is over, and you still have food, save a bit for yourself, and then give the rest to your area homeless shelter (call and make sure they can take it).

I hope the party is a success! Congrats on your DDs graduation!.
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So sorry that so many people were so inconsiderate. It's so frustrating! I hope that your daughter has a wonderful party!
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Sorry that people are inconsiderate. Hope the party goes well.
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Well just enjoy the party. People do not seem to RSVP anymore. It is a thing of the past . I have a theory that you can always count on about 40% of the people that you invite. That is the way it always seems to work out anyway.
Don't let the inconsiderate mess up your family's special day.
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I hear you sister! I go through this all the time. You may be surprised at how many people show up unannounced. Last February, I hosted a party at work. 40 people RSVP'd that they would be there, 120 showed up!! Don't worry about having too much food. It's better than having not enough.

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I understand how frustrating it can be. Hope you were able to enjoy the party.
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I know the feeling. I always include e--mail and text #s for RSVP. I also try and send an electronic e-vite or e-mail invite too. It seems to help, but even then, people don't respond.
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