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Old 12-23-2010, 11:02 AM   #1
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Unhappy Christmas Vent!

I will begin with saying that I love my extended family very much, with that said...

I am really sad that this Christmas will be less magic and more running around
We will begin tomorrow when we go to my dads for the eve. Lucky its a nice short one. He is starting at 4:30pm having finger foods/appetizers and then opening gifts. Home by 7:00pm. Then Christmas Morning we have to pick up my daughter at noon at her Biological fathers head to MIL's and have a 6 course Italian feast, do dishes, have dessert, do dishes have coffee and then open gifts. We don't get home until 7 or so and then open our own gifts(I want to open our gifts as a family not just DS, DH and me then DD after). You think it ends there....nope, the 26th we get to run around to FIL's house and then DD goes back to her Biological dads house to visit for a few more days before coming home and getting ready for school again.

I wish it was like when I was a kid. We visited with my moms family on Christmas eve. The entire family would meet at my aunts and exchange gifts. Christmas day was spent with just the immediate family and the grandparents would come to us.

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Old 12-23-2010, 11:08 AM   #2
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sending you some I'm lucky and don't have a busy schedule
xmas eve we go to my sisters not to open gifts but to celebrate my nephews birthday!
christmas we go to my parents in the AM and home by the PM but this year i might stop at my friends house for dinner
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I sort of miss all of the family visits, but not running my child around. I get to stay home, there is no family to visit anymore. Both of my parents are deceased now. My DD and I will spend a quiet morning opening presents and relaxing the entire day. I am really looking forward to it.

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I hear ya...Christmas Eve..to DBF parents for gifts and Mass....then Christmas morning we will open presents together myself, DD, and DBF, then to my Dad;s for gifts, then back to DBF parents house, then to my aunts for dinner, and gifts, oh and a few small stop ins along the way. Then the 26th we meet with friends for drinks and lunch....ANd DBF Mom wanted us to stay the night....I put my foot down there noway, we will wake up in out house and have our family Christmas. I love each and everyone of them but man....I will be glad to be home Christmas evening....sometime!
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I know what you mean. It was harder when the adult kids were younger - DH and his ex each had custody of one child. They took turns having the kids for Christmas Eve/Morning. That meant that we'd go half way up to his ex's (2 hours north, she drove 2 hours south) on the last day of school and either give her a child or we'd take one from her. Then, on Christmas day, we'd either wake the kids early and hurry to get all gifts opened, go to the in-laws and have Christmas there, and meet DH's ex to give her the kids. OR we'd wake up, NOT have Christmas for my DD and then later our children together, go get his kids back from the ex, then to the in-laws' house and then home for gifts (finally).
This year, it's home, then to my dad's at noon (15 minutes away, so not a big deal), leave there by about 2, then to my BiL's for a couple of hours, and home for dinner. Then on Sunday, it's off to my mom's (1/2 an hour away).

I wish it were more like my childhood. We did go see my grandparents, but it was always some time near Christmas. Christmas day was spent either with my mom or my dad if mom was working (nurses don't get holidays off). We didn't run everywhere, at least I don't remember it.

Honestly, I think it's rather unfair for your son to have to wait. Your DD gets to open gifts at her dad's. Why not let your son open at least some gifts? Maybe the ones left by Santa? Then, he can open a few more when his sister gets home. She'll be excited about what she got that morning, let him have that also. (we did this for my DD after a few years of not letting her open gifts when the step-kids were at their mom's)
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I put my foot down the year we brought our daughter home. We were not traveling anywhere for Christmas. Santa came to our house, so could any family members that wanted to see us on Christmas Day. It means that I get to make the big Christmas dinner, but that sure beats travelling. This year we'll have my DF, DSis, and her partner joining me, DH, DD, and DS.

Sending good wishes your way. One way to think about all your visiting is to think of how grateful you are to have all these people in your life that love you and want you around on such a special day.

Merry Christmas!
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Thanks everyone. I do feel lucky to have everyone still so I don't want to sound ungrateful in any way. Joanne as much as everyone loves DH and me they really just want to see the kids
Teresa that is the plan. Santa leaves all the gifts at our house and as always there will be plenty to open so we are going to do a few in the morning and let him play with those(he is easily distracted at this age 2 1/2). When we all get home later that day we will finish the gift opening and do stockings.
As awful as it sounds I am hoping for some snow on Christmas so we will have to shorten the visit at MIL's house. I can wish can't I.
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When my parents were alive, we always traveled over the holiday so we would have an early Christmas here-the kids were fine with it, they got two Christmases. As they got older and my parents passed, we still traveled but just brought their gifts along. This is my first Christmas at my house (DS1 is 27).

I do divorces and don't understand the hang up with everything happening on the 24-25th. It doesn't make a celebration any less special.
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We used to have to run all over for different Christmas parties with the family. Then we said that is enough and wanted to make a tradition for our kids. I didn't think there was much tradition in driving all over Michigan for two days. Now its Christmas eve at the inlaws for a couple hours. Christmas morning it is our family Christmas and in the afternoon the grandparents come over with their gifts and for dinner. Its much more relaxing and the kids like it a lot better.
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I'll send some pixies your way to help keep the stress levels low!! We're lucky and Christmas is very laid back! Christmas Eve we get pizza and make bean dip and watch movies with just dh and the boys and I. Christmas Day we go to my parents' for lunch, but it's right next door, so no biggie there! Then we go see a movie! I hope your busy stuff goes smoothly and you get a little bit of quality time with your immediate family to truly enjoy the season! HUGS!
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I do divorces and don't understand the hang up with everything happening on the 24-25th. It doesn't make a celebration any less special.
That's the way my parents saw it. And the way I've always been. Christmas was still Christmas no matter what day it was celebrated on. Unfortunately, DH's family says it ONLY happens on Dec. 25. He also has a sister who says if the kids aren't with her when she buys their presents, she won't get them any. She hasn't gotten them either a birthday or holiday gift for years.
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