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Old 11-01-2010, 12:23 AM   #1
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A Friend Needs some Major Pixies

One of my 2 best friends is having a hard time. Her family (her mom's family, actually) has told her her entire life that she's worthless; she wore a CHILDREN'S size 12 when she was 17, and her grandparents told her she was FAT; her uncle, aunt, and brother have told her repeatedly that she's not as smart as they are because she didn't finish college (even though she graduated high school a year early, after being in 5 different schools); they all tell her she doesn't know anything about raising kids because they've done better jobs (one has a kid who has spent the last 7 years in college with a GPA of less than 1.5, one has 2 kids - the college dropout drug addict and the child who is years behind in high school - he's a freshman and should be a senior and he has a 0.8 GPA, and the other has smart kids who are doing okay in school, but they're still young - and they get anything they want and have no discipline.
HER children: a 21 year old DD who is a wonderful young lady - she's graduating university with a high GPA - after 3 years of study, with a dual major, and an 18 year old son (as of 12AM Nov. 1) who is a Senior in HS, and has never had any problems. Both kids did Marching band all 4 years of HS, and the DD was on the varsity team all 4 years, plus swam for her university for the first 2 years. They're nice, outgoing, giving children. The only problem I've ever seen with them is that the son is a little OCD, and he only dated one girl all through HS - they just broke up after almost 4 years!

She's always given me great advice, and wonderful support during times of trouble in my own life. I've tried to do the same for her.

Something has happened. She won't talk to me or our other friend. She'll only communicate through e-mail, and that's not much ("I don't want to do anything, I'm worthless"). She writes that her family has told her she's a horrible person who destroys everyone she has anything to do with, so she's not associating with anyone anymore.

She has MS and FibroMylegia, and has a hard time getting around, even with braces on both legs and a quad cane. She can't drive and hasn't for 17 years. She's not able to work, and can't even leave her home without help (don't know why her husband hasn't built some handrails onto their steps). The three of us friends go out to eat lunch almost every week - and she's always looked forward to that, since it's often the only time during the week she gets out.

I'm frustrated and sad. This lady means a lot to my family, and our mutual friend's family. It's been a tradition for more than 10 years that we have Halloween at our house and they all come. This friend did not come tonight, nor did any of her family. I think that alone scares me more than anything else. She would never purposely hurt me - not until now.

So, can we have some pixies? The other friend and I are going over to her house tomorrow to try to get her to leave the house and talk to us. I'm afraid we may not succeed.
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Depression is common in people with MS. My Mom had it and would often tell us that she wished she was dead. Don't give up on her. Maybe you and your friends could bring her a little something and have a visit in her home if she won't come to you. In the meantime, sending only the best wishes to all.
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Maybe she's had a bad flair-up and is really feeling bad. I think a visit from her friends is a great idea. Good luck.
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