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Old 08-28-2010, 12:41 PM   #1
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Hi all. Things have been a little crazy around here so I haven't been posting. I met with an attorney a few weeks ago and she informed me that she couldn't take my case and that I would be hard pressed to find a local attorney who would take my case. This is all because my father in law is on the city council and my Uncle in law is a prominent businessman. I was devastated. I knew that I needed a very strong lawyer in case things went bad.
I talked to my husband that same night. I told him that I thought it would be best if we went our separate ways. I told him that I met with an attorney (leaving out the part about not actually having one). He agreed that we should divorce and that he would agree to do it uncontested. He even agreed that we could stay in the house and he would find a place to live.
The only trouble I have had so far is that he is trying to play our son by telling him he can live with him. He can't care for him, smokes and DS is asthmatic, won't make him bathe or brush teeth, but on clean matching clothes, eat healthily etc. He says he won't fight me having primary custodianship, but then why is he putting DS in the middle? Needless to say, he didn't mention DD living with him. I can't imagine have my kids grow up separated like that. I grew up in a different home from my brother, and I don't want that for my babies.
The other thing my husband (the unfaithful one) has done is tell people that I have a boyfriend and that I took him with me on my trip to Seattle. He denies it, says that is what people have told him. What a crock of poo! I am a mom and work full time and assume all of the household responsibilities....I don't have the time, or the desire for a boyfriend.
I have an attorney in the next time over and she is awesome! She is drawing up my paper work this next week. She plans on filing our case in the next county over if we agree on everything, and we won't even have to go to court. She is trying to work through this fast so that hopefully he won't have time to really change his mind. I am being fair about everything, even letting him pay reduced amt. of child support in an attempt to keep him on my good side. The last thing I want is a long drawn out expensive divorce. It would be so hard on the kids. I am also granting him liberal visitation as long as he will do it, because that will also benefit the kids.
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Old 08-28-2010, 01:00 PM   #2
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Hope everything moves swiftly for you. I agree that it would be much better for the kids to grow up in the same home. Good luck!
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Sounds like you're doing what you can to protect the kids. Your H needs to back off your DS, though. DH and his ex-wife split their kids, because she didn't want the girl and wouldn't give him the boy. 5 years and thousands of $$$ later, he finally gave up fighting for the boy because of what it was doing to the kids. He now regrets that. (the kids are now 33 and 27 and don't really talk)
Splitting kids is awful. It makes strangers of siblings. I'm glad you're against it.

At least the first attorney was up front with you about her ability to help you. I'm happy you've found one who isn't concerned about your FiL's influence.
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