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Old 08-12-2009, 09:09 PM   #1
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I need a hug--for me and ds

I'm so frustrated for my little guy right now. He's 6--and has adhd, sensory processing disorder, visual procesing disorders, and because of all of them he has some social problems. He is such a friendly little guy--and he makes friends so easily! He loves other kids and he loves to play--but he gets his feelings hurt and falls apart, doesn't like their rules or they don't like his, they want to be rough and tumble and his sensory issues just don't allow him to enjoy that....he does with dad in certain environments--but not with other kids outside.

1st grade seems to be going well--though I haven't heard anything about new friends (he has problems with remember people's names though..lol). But the problem is in the apartment complex. We have mostly older kids --even though some of them are his age--the older kids pick on him or ignore him. We have tried talking with him about some of the different behaviors and he and his therapist together started talking about trex's....because he loves dinosaur--and someone who is a trex is not very nice. Well, we have a brother and sister who are both trex's and they dictate most of the play over here --and they are outside all the time. If he comes out and I'm not out (though I'm always sitting inside the sliding glass door--it's next to my computer) --they are mean to him or won't let him play at all. If I'm out there they will just leave and go play somewhere else--taking everyone else with them. I don't allow him to run the complex--he's six--but most of them do. I have talked to their mom about them pushing him and hitting him--and it has stopped for the most part--but he doesn't want anythign to do with them and I don't blame him.

Tonight a little girl knocked on the door and wanted him to come out and play--so he did. Only the sister trex came out and was playing with the other little girl too--well my little guy refused to play with either one--because the trex sister was being mean again--but he fell apart and instead of coming to us and asking us to help with the situation just sat their and cried. His feelings are hurt and he has no one. He does have a couple of other social activities but not right this minute.

He's over it by now and asleep but it just makes me so sad for him. I know it will all come in time...but it's so hard right now...
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for you and your handsome little man. I wish I knew why kids can be so cruel. I hope that things improve for him and he has a good year at school.

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Mean mean trex's. It's sad how many parents don't help these kinds of situations.
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Poor little guy......to be able to handle the trex people of the world very soon.....
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