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Old 05-21-2009, 12:46 PM   #1
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Why are some people parents??

I work at my brother's dental office. We have a toy table set up with games, puzzles etc. We have a family in now with mom and a toddler waiting for her other children. I look in the waiting room and the toddler is happily munching on a string connected to one of the magna doodle pens. I go in "no, no honey that's bad, icky." trying to take the pen away. Toddler screams, I look at mom "he likes to put everything in his mouth," and child continues to munch away. That pen has be used by hundreds of children, been stepped on etc. I just sit here and shake my head-ewwww.
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Old 05-21-2009, 12:55 PM   #2
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EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW. I never let my child play with the toys in the pediatrician's office because of all the sick kids that would touch them first. At least at the dentist every isn't sick but still EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
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I know, I have a cousin who let her child play with phones, TV's, remote controls...whatever he wanted. Didn't care if they were on, had batteries in them. Whatever he wanted to do they just let him. I think they didn't want to fight with him to leave them alone so they just let him go.

People even used to let their children play in and around the automatic doors in the ER Waiting room when I worked at a hospital. Couldn't be bothered to keep them away. I just cringed everytime, waiting for that one time someone got a hand or body stuck in the doors. You just gotta wonder...
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Old 05-21-2009, 01:25 PM   #6
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Yeah, people don't think. It's easier to let them do it than to tell them no and have to deal with it.
i.e.; We were coming home from WDW a few years ago, and Lauren wanted to get the luggage off the conveyor belt. I said "No, you might get your fingers caught in it". She was okay, but not happy. Another mother didn't tell her child no. He was about the same age as Lauren. He got his finger stuck in the conveyor belt, and it was a mess. His finger was intact, but quite bruised, cut, and bloodied. As they were leaving, the dad was yelling at the mom, asking why she didn't say no. Well, she didn't want to argue and she didn't want to make the 8 yr. old mad!!
I'd prefer my kids remain healthy and intact than they like me that exact moment.
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I'm not a parent but I've been certainly educated by my sisters One of my sisters is dead on strict about one set of things while the other is strict on another set of things. They both have a different set of things from each other that they are not strict about. None of that is life threatening stuff but I know they both can drive each other slightly bonkers about what the other is not strict on with their kids.

One time, I asked both sisters if it drove them crazy what the other doesn't do and they both told me that it is a matter of picking your battles. So maybe that mom has decided that chewing on pens in the dental office is a battle she is not gonna take up the gauntlet on but she might be strict on something else that you wouldn't dream of being strict about.

Granted, the pen thing is most definitely an ewwww but my sisters have taught me a certain perspective on that stuff. Everyone has a different definition of which battle is worth your limited mom energy to fight.
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Yuk! I wouldn't let DD do that, and my tolerance is higher than most.
The kid probably has a great immune system
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I agree with the sentiment that you have to pick your battles, especially being the mom of a speical needs kid, but sorry - chewing on something that was not in my house is definitely not something I would ever let her do. I can't stand it when Abby chews on the string of her hat but it's hers, only been on her head so that I'd let her get away with.
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Thats so gross. I hated putting them in grocery carts because I was afraid they would put their mouthes on them.
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Ewwwww! I never let Bri do that when she was little. All the germs and what not! YUCK!
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The kid probably has a great immune system
My mom used to refer to places like this as "corporate germ farms." (She was a biochemist and knew that the body would likely build up great immunities by this sort of access.) That said, she wouldn't let us do this more because it's just plain... well... sorta rude.
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We call every doctors office a "germ factory." My son gets allergy shots once a week and I swear, both my kids are more sick because we keep going to the doctors office!
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Thats so gross. I hated putting them in grocery carts because I was afraid they would put their mouthes on them.
That's why I LOVE my grocery cart cover! No touching icky things and I can
wash the cover so I know it's clean.
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EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW. I never let my child play with the toys in the pediatrician's office because of all the sick kids that would touch them first. At least at the dentist every isn't sick but still EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
My DD would LOVE to play with the toys in the pediatricians office but I bring
her own toys when we are there. This is the same office that had a case of
Swine Flu when it first came out.
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