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Old 09-21-2007, 05:27 PM   #1
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I need pixies...it's a long one *update*

I hate to ask but I really could use them.

My grandmother broke her hip in 5 places a few weeks ago and is not doing well. It is only a matter of time and we all know this. They have decided to stop fluids and to make her as comfortable as they can. My grandfather spent time with her this morning as was going to their assisted living home to make an announcment. I saw her last weekend and there were two things she said to me that I could understand clearly. "You are beautiful" and as I was leaving "Everything will be alright here." I am happy with the way I left things with her and do not plan on going up this weekend. My husband is traveling next week so if anything happens while he is gone, the kids will go with me.

While I was there last weekend traveling between my mothers summer home and the nursing home, I witnessed some activity that I thought was odd. When I got home and checked a website with the news from there and they found bones that night. The report said they had been there awhile but they the timing in the news report does not jive with what I saw (I had been through the area twice. The third time the sheriff [why can't I spell that right] were there.). They know who it is and arrested the woman's boyfriend at the time for her death. I know I need to call the police and will do it while I am there, most likely in the near future.

Then I got a call from DS2 school nurse telling me his sugar had been high (he's got type 1 diabetes) 8 of the 9 days he had been in school and I had to come get him. She also said he was not allowed back to school until his sugars were regulated. At some point she said to me "I don't think you are taking very good care of him." When I came out of my stupor long enough to realize this could be weeks at least I asked her about his education she replied "I wouldn't worry about his education I would worry about his sugar". I won't go into details about the horror it was and trying to get him back into school but we did. After a meeting w/ the nurse, principal, guidance counselor and rep from the school board (who's wife has type 1 also) I told her what she said devestated me but I understood her concern. She was doing her job and her first concern is for my child. I can't ask for more than that. Well, maybe if she could just choose her words better.

So to bottom line it...Life's been pretty difficult for the last month and it's going to get a little more so before it gets better. I know I need coping pixies (I'm back to therapy in 2 weeks) but could you also send pixies to my grandmother for a smooth and quick transition. I know it sounds horrible but we have talked about her dying and I know she is ready. She has been ready for a long time to go "home".

If I turned anyone off, I'm sorry. I really need to get this off my chest to someone neutral. Maybe I should get diary. But thank you if you made it this far.

UPDATE**They have decided to stop all fluids. Her vitals were sliding but not quickly. I plan on calling the authorities tomorrow to tell them what I saw. I hope it doesn't mean anything but I don't think I can live with myself if I don't. Thank you all for your support and caring. It really does help me feel better.
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I hope things start turning around, even if it's that your grandmother "goes home". My maternal grandmother is 95 and on occassion begs me to kill her (which I remind her is illegal and while I'd love to help her out, the police won't be very understanding), so I understand your pain.
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While it's valid to be concerned about a kid with juvenile diabetes, that's no excuse to tell a parent "you're not taking care of your child". I'm afraid I wouldn't have let that rest.

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