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Old 06-07-2007, 10:24 PM   #1
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DD just keeps twisting that knife a bit more WWYD? **Update 1st post***

I've posted that DD Samantha is going to be in the Miss Wheelchair USA contest in July. We're really excited for her, and are all looking forward to going to D.C. for the whole thing.
Last night, while I was talking to her and her boyfriend, I asked if she had made arrangements for a nurse to be there to care for her. (she needs about 3 or so hours of nursing care a day)
Her response was "That's why I asked you to come" That really hurt, since I thought she wanted us to be there for support and to share in her happiness, not as a servant.
THEN it got worse. Her boyfriend piped in with "Yeah, she wasn't even going to say anything about it to you, but my mom couldn't help out" (his mother does the nursing care for DD when they go to visit her and when they all went to WDW together)

It was bad enough when Samantha talked about this lady, whom I like by the way, and called her "mom" (a title I was offended to have given to someone else - I would never call my in-laws by parental names - that is for my parents only). Now to find out I was SECOND choice!! And, from what he said last night - and she didn't deny - it seems as if they weren't even going to tell me that she was in the contest to begin with.

DH says I should tell her that I can't go after all. Part of me wants to do that because I'm so hurt. BUT I want to be there to support my DD, and I've already told the other kids we're going, and they've been planning out where they'd like to go and what they'd like to see. It would be a crushing blow to all of us to cancel. But I feel like a schmuck for going. So, WWYD?

**** Well, Samantha got to me first - I was intending going and talking to her on Saturday. She read the post last night and called. She didn't realize she hadn't asked me to help her out. AND - she really does have a problem with saying something and not realizing that what she said is not coming across the way she thinks it does. Problem solved. We're still going, and I'll be helping Samantha out.

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I would sit down and discuss your feelings with DD. You will feel better if she knows how you feel and she may not realize she has even hurt your feelings. Also, if you don't go with her you will feel worse for not being there to support her. Good luck with this and to your daughter in the pageant.
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I would sit down and discuss your feelings with DD. You will feel better if she knows how you feel and she may not realize she has even hurt your feelings. Also, if you don't go with her you will feel worse for not being there to support her. Good luck with this and to your daughter in the pageant.
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