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Old 09-14-2008, 02:23 PM   #1
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People just dont get it

I cant believe some people... Its like if you like Disney...you are materialistic and your kids will have a gimme gimme attitude

(they dont know I am going back and they dont know we are now DVC)
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Old 09-14-2008, 03:06 PM   #2
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Don't ask...Don't tell. A few people know I own DVC, most don't. VERY few people know how often I am going to Disney (everyone here of course who wants to look at my sig!) and that's it! Most people don't get it! Funny thing at work today (I worked a "princess shift" of 4 1/2 hours SO NICE) one of the guys was talking about quitting smoking and how it would save him over $1500 dollars a year! I made the comment "WOW I could take myself on a nice little disney vacation for $1500" and what I got as a reply was "Didn't you just get back from Disney?" with some odd looks. YUP and I'm going again in December, February AND MAY! HA SO THERE! Well That will have to hold me till 2010 cuz then I'm out of points I KNEW I shoulda bought more points upfront! Of course then DH would have really freaked!

I have a couple of people I talk to about Disney, and I COME HERE!! YAY for Passporter!~
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Old 09-14-2008, 03:16 PM   #3
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Hi,

On a recent road trip with my best friends, she commented that she couldn't understand why we went to WDW over and over again. She said very sarcastically, why don't you go ANYWHERE eles. I told her that I have been to Scotland, Grand Cayman, Bermuda, Jamaica, Aruba, Barbados, and St. Thomas. I've been in every state on the Eastern Seaboard, and across the old route 66 to California and that we just love WDW as our "family" vacation destination. I explained since I have already seen a fair piece of the country I really don't want to do it again. Her reply...Why don't you do it for your daughter! I mean really, so much money on a vacation...I spend less than $1000.00 a year when I take my family of four!.

Some people will just never get it, I gave up and only talk Disney with my family who are also Disney-aholics, and my new pp friends.
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It's a lost cause! My sister said the other day "you're going AGAIN". I said yes don't you go to Talladega every year. She said "that's different every time". THe cars going around and around and around the track can't be that different.
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I have a few friends who just look at me like I'm crazy when I talk about Disney. We are going this year, are already planning next years trip and the year after that just me and the hubby are going. When I tell my family and friends about all these plans my family(espically my g-mother) well the first thing out of her mouth is you ain't going to have any money if you keep taking trips. And then I have a couple of other friends that I know they think I am crazy and then for some reason they think we are rich with us planning all these trips ...
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What I Believe About Disney Vacations and Friends

1. Disney World is my choice of a vacation, not my passion.
2. I have a best friend who doesn't get it because she lives close to DL. I live in the NE.
3. Since we each have our own lives we have different problems and good times with our families. If she hated DL she would still want me to have fun in WDW.
4. Now I have another DD who lives in FL and she didn't quite get it either . I explained that we all saved money to go to WDW and her DS was left with the planning. We have different rides to go on, different shows, different live entertainments to see, favorite restaurants. My DD came away from the emial with a lot of respect for what her DS is doing to see everyone has a fun vacation.
5. Every email I sent my friend, were about the in plans we were making. Then I wrote her that this vacation then I have seen some people put into planning their weddings.
6. Yet, we are going to be away from the conforts of our home. Disneyworld is like a home away from home.
7. We want to share Disney with our children.
8. Or instead of liking vacations together they could drift towards things we don't want them to learn.
9. Raising children is hard. Mine are all grown and two of them have enjoyed Disney through the years. Another is a 'winer'.
11. Love Disney or hate it, Disney is still the top money maker so there are many of us who choose Disney for their vacation spots.
12 Do not feel guilty. You are doing some good for your family and having fun with them.
The first letter of each number spells Disneyworld. Yeh!!
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we live with our dfil and every time he hears us talk about money problems he has the nerve to tell us to sell our disney vacation club . and not for nothing i'm sorry this will never happend . he is from the old school you should own a house not a time share . then privately me and wife talk she agrees with me when i said he puts every cent away but now that his wife past in march . gee he has money but can he actually enjoy it . i sure know whenever i pass my kids had vacations like me and my wife never had growing up.
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1. Disney World is my choice of a vacation, not my passion.
2. I have a best friend who doesn't get it because she lives close to DL. I live in the NE.
3. Since we each have our own lives we have different problems and good times with our families. If she hated DL she would still want me to have fun in WDW.
4. Now I have another DD who lives in FL and she didn't quite get it either . I explained that we all saved money to go to WDW and her DS was left with the planning. We have different rides to go on, different shows, different live entertainments to see, favorite restaurants. My DD came away from the emial with a lot of respect for what her DS is doing to see everyone has a fun vacation.
5. Every email I sent my friend, were about the in plans we were making. Then I wrote her that this vacation then I have seen some people put into planning their weddings.
6. Yet, we are going to be away from the conforts of our home. Disneyworld is like a home away from home.
7. We want to share Disney with our children.
8. Or instead of liking vacations together they could drift towards things we don't want them to learn.
9. Raising children is hard. Mine are all grown and two of them have enjoyed Disney through the years. Another is a 'winer'.
11. Love Disney or hate it, Disney is still the top money maker so there are many of us who choose Disney for their vacation spots.
12 Do not feel guilty. You are doing some good for your family and having fun with them.
The first letter of each number spells Disneyworld. Yeh!!
that is such great thinking!!!!
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No they Just don't get it. We plan a trip to WDW every 2 years because we save and save and save and save for it and we go every 2 years and we have blast, put away ANY money we had left and start saving again. We are going in December this time around and we had asked another friend couple to go and bring their girls and make a BIG fun trip. (we talked about it a year and a half ago) she said yes and was very excited. Then when we went to book our trip in January 2008 she said NO they couldn't do it and had no clue how we did this every 2 years when her husband makes way more then my husband. WOW. I could not believe that she said this to me then she went on to say that we "Claim" to be paupers but live like King's.

I just chalk it up to I know how to budget and plan and save and she was jealous. Ya we may have some money trouble through out the year and we cant afford to get DVC any time soon. Although I would LOVE it. But we have fun and my kids will remember having a FUN vacation every other year. And what better a place then Disney World.


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It's a lost cause! My sister said the other day "you're going AGAIN". I said yes don't you go to Talladega every year. She said "that's different every time". THe cars going around and around and around the track can't be that different.
I hear the same thing from friends, "You're going AGAIN" But Disney IS different everytime you go. They are always adding new stuff and there are different events that happen throughout the year.
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That's why I am so thankful to have Passporters who do understand the magic. I no longer talk about my vacations so much although the people I work with know how many times I go. They like it since I come back so much easier to work with!

My family just moans about how much money I am spending but having lost my husband when he was 36, life is way too short to regret not spending enough fun time with my DD. I hope that she will have many wonderful memories to treasure like the ones I have of my family vacations. It's just icing on the cake that we both love Disney so much. I think my husband would have understood and enjoyed it just as much as we do now.
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Wea re going on our first trip to WDW next week, and we get the snyde remarks about being "rich". It is not that we are rich, it is that we have decided to live our life differently. We do not live in a nice new big house, we live in a nice, old fixed up house that we have worked hard to make a home. Our payment is far less than what most of our friends pay. We do not have 2 new vehicles in the garage, DH drives an 11 year old pick up, and I do have a 2007 van, but that is because my 13 year old van called it quits last September, and we had to do something. I lost my father when I was 18 years old, and the best memories we have of our family all together is on our vacations. We have gone on vacations the last 3 years and the girls get out the pictures and we talk about the stuff we did or saw, and I can tell that these are going to be their favorite memories to. I don't care what people say...I will not give up these trips. And maybe we will love WDW so much that we will want to return every year too. But that is for us to decide and no one has any reason to question our decision!!!
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This is why I love you all . You DO get it. I love all things Disney. My DH loves it too. Okay, not quite as much as I do but luckily he does. People are going to have comments about anything they don't agree with. But, what makes you and your family happy is all that matters. If we decide to go to Disney more often than others, that is our choice. And as far as I am concerned it is a great choice .

Also, I have a child who is allergic to a LOT of things. For that reason, we can't fly to the DR or Costa Rica or Jamiaca like friends of ours as easily because I would worry about the language barrier and how things are prepared. For me...there is a certain piece of mind as well in travelling to Disney.

OK...I just love it...and would go back again and again if I could.
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It's a lost cause! My sister said the other day "you're going AGAIN". I said yes don't you go to Talladega every year. She said "that's different every time". THe cars going around and around and around the track can't be that different.
Hey, look they made a left turn!
Sorry, I couldn't resist. I watch Nascar races on TV and have been to a couple. But would rather be at Disney.
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When friends and family make remarks I try to tell them that this is what we do and this is how we are doing it. They still don't understand. My husband is the only one that works, we have 5 children..but at the same time we live below our means and thats how we do it. We have 2 vechiles but one is a 1972 Ford LTD that sits iin the drive. I love comparing mine and my MIL's house payment. LOL She lives in a lavish house and pay's 1500.00 a month(she just filed bankruptcy)...ours well lets just say that the 1500 she pays on just her house payment will pay our bills for the month. LOL
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