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Old 08-14-2012, 09:16 AM   #1
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Hello everyone!

I just had a couple questions about birthday celebrations at Disney World.

1) Does it have to be your actual birthday to celebrate it at Disney?

2) If it doesn't, what is the proper protocol for wearing a birthday button? Do you wear it for one day or for the whole trip?


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No, and the second part depends on you. My son wore it a couple days out of the trip.
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I wore it for one full day and a couple hours another day when we were having my birthday lunch, but I am an adult. I've seen people wearing it the entire trip!! Yup actually seen the same person over and over on different days!
It does not have to be your actual birthday, but when I was there once on my actual birthday it did make it feel more special to me somehow! How you decide to wear the button is entirely up to you. If you are going on a birthday celebration trip, wear it as you see fit for you!! Enjoy Your Trip!
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It's your trip, whatever makes you comfortable/happy. Myself, I don't care for outside attention so I wouldn't even wear a pin on my birthday. Lenny on the other hand loves his pins. Last time we were there on his birthday, he took ALL of his b-day pins with him and put them on his scooter canopy (in the shape of a Hidden Mickey of course) and he wore a shirt proclaiming it was his birthday that a fellow PPer made for us.
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I'm just worried that it'll seem like I'm taking advantage of Disney by getting one when it's not my birthday. But I just didn't want to fight the August heat and crowds.
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But I just didn't want to fight the August heat and crowds.
What's this got to do with whether you get a pin and when you wear it?
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What's this got to do with whether you get a pin and when you wear it?
My birthday is in August, but my trip is in September. I wanted to celebrate my birthday in Disney but didn't want to fight the heat and crowds.
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My birthday is in August, but my trip is in September. I wanted to celebrate my birthday in Disney but didn't want to fight the heat and crowds.
Okay, now your comment makes a lot more sense but as I said in my other post - whatever you're comfortable doing. I know for us, Lenny has gotten lots of Happy Birthday's from CM's and other guests while wearing the pin and that was it in the parks. In 2010 (and only that year), he got cupcakes and/or a piece of cake at every TS meal we had (they asked for celebrations, I told them Lenny and the acutal day - they noted it everyday though). The other 3 trips we took over his birthday, he only got the cupcake/cake only on his birthday, not all week long. Since we've never gotten any kind of special treatment wearing the pin (other than cupcakes we clearly don't need), I'd hate to see you want to wear it expecting it and not receiving it, KWIM? If you want to wear it just to wear it and hear Happy Birthday all week, then go ahead - whatever you like.
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As others have said, it's whatever you're comfortable with. We celebrated DH's birthday at DLR last year. We were there for 5 days, including his actual birthday, and he wore the pin almost the entire time. He figured that since the purpose of the trip was celebrating his 40th birthday, why not?

I will say that you shouldn't expect to get any special treatment by wearing the birthday button. We got a cupcake at one TS lunch and that was fine. The fun part was all the birthday wishes from CMs and from other guests (including others celebrating their birthdays!). One CM who was sweeping up some trash in DCA stopped and sang DH a whole birthday ditty that he appeared to just make up off the top of his head!

We are celebrating my 40th at Disney World in September (our trip begins about 2 weeks after my actual birthday). We'll be there for 10 days, and I don't think I'll wear the button the entire time. I will probably mostly wear it to the special F&WF events/meals that we are doing specifically to celebrate my birthday.
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The kids wear theirs the whole week (actually the whole 10 days)...adults depend on how long they want to wear them. My son who will turn 35 on this trip will wear his the WHOLE. ENTIRE. WEEK! LOL!

I will wear mine on one day...and my oldest daughter will probably only wear hers to her birthday dinner. (yup, we have tons of birthdays on our trip!)

We are also celebrating our anniversary on this trip. And we have one person who will be sporting a 'My first trip' button. Between the 14 of us, everyone except one will have a button of some kind...and the one without is my 12 year old daughter who prefers NOT to be noticed and pretends she is not with the rest of us!

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This is our annual WDW trip this year but happens to be a week before my birthday. I was thinking the same thing about wearing a button if it wasn't my actual birthday but you all have eased that concern and I think I will get myself a button and wear it proudly
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We were supposed to be in Disney for ds and dh's third and fortieth birthdays, respectively. My Daddy was loosing his battle with cancer and we postponed by a month. We celebrated both of them on their birth day, just one month later. I turned 40 this year but I prefer not to do Disney in July, so again, I'll celebrate on the day just four months late.

We've always just worn our buttons on that day but I know plenty of people who celebrate their entire trip.
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I say go for it too!! They ask you what are you celebrating, not what date is your special occasion. There may be a million reasons you couldn't do a vacation on your actual birthday, but that doesn't mean you're not celebrating it with that trip!! I think if you feel weird about it, when they ask what are you celebrating, just say "This trip is to celebrate my birthday that was in August!" Then if they decide to do something special, you have been honest so no guilty conscious.

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I know DH and I wear our anniversary pins the entire trip; however, just for personal preference, I tend to wear my birthday button only on my actual birthday. The whole trip is special, but I like making the actual day just that much more all about that particular celebration.

That doesn't mean though that you can't do the exact opposite. Most CMs will ask, "Is it your birthday?" and you can simply say that the whole trip is a birthday trip. And, like others have said, if they then decide to do something extra, fantastic!

Disney knows not everyone can get away right on their actual birthdays, anniversaries, etc. I can guarantee they're just happy you're there to spend it, at some point, in the parks!
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Just wore my birthday button on my birthday.I had a great day with my daughter at typhoon lagoon in the wave pool, a huge donut after, Dtd with lunch at raglan road and an evening walking around the boardwalk.A fellow who was using up his dining meals bought us a pizza also mmmmm.
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