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Old 03-26-2012, 10:00 PM   #1
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Too young for Arlington?

We are taking a family vacation to Washington DC in August. It's a short trip, only 5 days (we are driving so 14 hours total round trip) so I want to make the most of our time.

I, DBF, DS9, and DF will be making the trip with maybe DSIS and DBIL coming along as well. We will probably stay at the JW Marriott or the Hyatt and we will be traveling to VA for at least an evening to see some friends.

My question is, is a 9 year old boy OBSESSED with war and history too young for Arlington Nat'l Cemetery and the Changing of the Guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier?

I went in 6th grade and 8th grade and didn't have a problem but even in 6th grade I didn't get the significance of it. DS9 has ADHD and may not be on meds because it's summer vacation. I'm afraid he will either not be still and respectful but I really want my dad to see it as he said he'd like to. Should I allow DF to go see it and keep DS9 occupied elsewhere?

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I think if you have a child with ad/hd that it sounds like hyper-focuses on history and war would probably really enjoy Arlington.

My kids both have similar issues and although they are impulsive most of the time, if it is something they hyper-focus on they do very well, even off Meds. I think you talk to your son about the significance and let him read and research about it before you go he might do okay. Be sure the information includes what is expected of spectators. You of course know your son best and it might be something you have to decide the day of based in how he is doing.
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If he's that interested, he can probably stay focused. The ceremony isn't all that long, but it is mesmerizing. You might want to stay near the top of the crowd so you can duck into the museum if need be.
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There are also areas to stand in case you need to just quietly back up and walk away.
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Hi!

Actually, it would be an excellent experience for your son. There is much to do, see, feel, learn at Arlington. Kids should be given every opportunity to explore their interests and as you know, all kids have different tolerance levels/attention spans. It sounds like your son will enjoy it since he has an expressed passion. With kids of all ages, abilities and challenges, it is always good to have an escape route if they hit the end of their patience and need to go outside to make noise, have a snack or a drink, jump around, wiggle, etc. etc. Most people have kids and are sympathetic if parents need to "evacuate" a wiggly child.

You might want to do the hop-on, hop-off tour bus in DC - if he gets tired and is done with Arlington, you can go back to the hotel and other family members can stay and finish their visit at their leisure. Those busses leave a specific meeting point on a regular, frequent schedule.
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Thanks everyone! I think having him research it is a good idea. He is always bringing home books from school on different countries and of course history books on the different wars.

I'm going to judge how he is that day and since we are loosely planning this trip hopefully we get to go.

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He should enjoy it. My parents and brother went about three years ago. My dad is a military buff, and spent a lot of time at Arlington. As far as your son being bored, try and explain to him the significance of the soldiers marching there. Make him try and understand that they soldiers are so dedicated they are to thier comrades, that they view this ceremony as sacred, therefore best behavior is expected. Hope it goes well for you; and enjoy.
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