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Old 04-13-2005, 10:12 PM   #91
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Terry, I haven't been here in a few days, so I just read this. Look at all of the postings. See how beloved you are. When I first dated my DH, he stopped seeing me because he said that he wasn't sure what love was, and he didn't think he loved me. I was devastated, but didn't act that way. I said, 'OK' and went about being me. After a few months, he admitted that he still cared about me and that we were dating again. I wish you all the pixie dust I had then. !
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Oh my gosh, Terri. I'm so sorry to hear that. You'll be in my thoughts and I'm sending you tons of
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I have been thinking for a few days what I could say to encourage you. I understand how you feel. You and Scott seemed to really click. I think that maybe he got a little scared because of the medical crisis that you have been going through. I will send lots of prayers and that this will all work out for you.

Maybe this is just a bump in the road in you relationship or maybe he really is not right one for you. You have been through so much but I believe that trials make you stronger.

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I'm so to hear that Terri. But I agree that it's his loss and we all love you. Here's and to help you through this tough time.
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I have been gone from the boards for a while and am just catching up and saw this and my heart sank for you! But as everyone else has said far better than I could. It is his loss. But who knows, he may wake up and realize what he is missing and come back. I am thinking of you and sending you all the pixie dust I can find to help you thru this time!
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I'm so sorry Terri. It's his loss. DH stopped seeing me for a while when we were dating because things were happening a little to fast for him. we got back together and have been married for almosr 30 yrs. So maybe he'll come to his senses, yet. if not. You such a great person and it'll be his loss.
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Oh Terry I am so sorry. My first instinct was do you want me to take him out, but hey it was just a passing thought! I know everything happens for a reason but geesh I hate that! I like things My way! I know everything will work out in the end, but you want someone who is there for you in good times and bad. I know this can be scarey for some guys but hey this is life-not everything is perfect. Rant over-my prayers are with you. You deserve some good in your life.
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I'm so sorry Terry!!!!!

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I've been thinking on this one for a few days too, Terri. I was wondering if you and Scott are able to remain friends? Maybe if you just start from scratch, and take it really slow, (like maybe just going out for coffee - maybe not right away, but when you've both had a little time) maybe he would be able to see you as a really fun person to be around without any pressure. You both seem to enjoy each other's company. Either way, give yourself some time, focus on doing fun things that you really enjoy. You need some space too, to sort this all out.
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Thanks everyone. I am trying to cope and stay busy - but I will admit the quiet times are really hard. I know I have to greive and let my heart hurt when it needs to - needless to say - crying is a common event in my house right now.

Thank you all for your kinds words, thoughts and .... I really just wish I could speed time up about 5 or 6 months so that I would be at the point where I only remember the good things....

I am not sure if Scott and I can be friends... at least not for a long time. I know we get along very well, never argued and enjoy being together - but it would be hard for me not have feelings for him... so alot of time would have to pass before I see that ever happening.
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Glad your doing OK Terri, I was thinking of you earlier, hang on in there, time is a great healer
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