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Old 06-07-2006, 11:11 AM   #46
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Well, here is the update. Although nothing is finalized yet it looks like we are finally able to move on.

My DH and I have been having extremely rough times for many years and nothing was changing. This year it really got alot worse. Thanks to everyone for all the pixies thru the year! I wouldn't have made it otherwise.

After many bombshells in a short period of time I just couldn't deal any more and filed for divorce and yesterday we were able to agree to settle out of court and it should be final sometime next week. Although I am so sad at the loss of my dream I know this is for the best. He has alot of issues that aren't my fault and he has to fix those and then decide if he wants me or the other person involved. That is on top of many others issues that came to light. I hope that he can get his anger under control and maybe thru all of that we might find a way back to each other.

I know it is crazy but I still love him very much! But, I have to move on and get my girls out of a bad situation. I just hope he doesn't drop out of the girls lives.

We are agreeing to be amicable and hopefully can truly be friends. So far we are being pretty good. The true test will be when he moves out and we move back to where I grew up.

Pixies for the girls as we still haven't told them and have to within the next couple of weeks. Also, I had just started really developing a wonderful relationship with my MIL and I think she feels betrayed by me and at the moment is inconsolable. Alot of that is because my DH refuses to tell them what all has gone on in the marriage to get us to where we are now.

Oh well, thanks so much for your support! I will be on only periodically over the next couple of months but please know I am thinking of you and can't wait till I can get back on permanently!
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I'm so glad that you have agreed to be amicable. I am a child of a wonderful divorce. My parents still freely admit that they STILL, after more than 30 years of divorce, care for one another, they just can't live together (this is not exactly okay with step-mom, but she copes) They almost never said anything bad about the other, and when they did and we would report to the other "Dad, Mom said you used to...." They would just respond, "Oh, I didn't remember it quite that way, but okay" or "Well, that's what s/he said, huh?" and that was it.

On the other hand, DH and his first wife had a horrid, contentious divorce. They still don't talk, and that makes it hard to cope with kids and later grandkids. I did finally get DH to stop saying bad things about his ex after about 5 years of marraige (that's 8 yrs. after the divorce) by explaining that every time he says something bad about HER, he is saying something bad about HALF of THE kIDS.

His son thanked me the other day. It made all the biting of the tongue worth it.

Sorry to "preach", but I always worry that parents aren't going to remember the kids in the divorce. Sounds like you are on the right track, though.
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I'm really glad things are looking better. Please take care of yourself and your girls and check in to let us know how you're doing!
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