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Old 06-18-2010, 09:02 PM   #31
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Hey guys!
Just wanted to let you all know, Dsis and I had a talk tonight. This after I talked to DStep-mama this afternoon.
They tried to step Dad down from being so dependent on the vent right now, but he has atelectasis in his lungs. This is kind of like little pockets all over that have collapsed, but only in that area. Of course, getting him off the vent is not going to happen soon.
We've all decided to not make any decisions right now. We (Dsis and I) want our Dad around for Father's Day, even if he's drugged out of his mind. We'll talk more on Monday, but we've all agreed that I'll talk to the Doctors, and keep in mind what I know Dad has said before he wants, and then the three of us will make a decision. We may decide to pull the vent and hope for the best. Don't know. But as I said before, I'm the strong one. Funny, I'm also the emotional one!

We did get a glimmer of hope this evening. DSis and I were in Dad's room, and his eyes popped open. Asked if he was cold, he nodded. Asked if he was hot, he nodded. That depressed me (possible brain issues). But then - I started just talking to him about what was going on, and asked if he remembered it was Sunday that he went to hospital. he nodded yes. Then I said - "Dad, it's Friday now" And his eyes got HUGE!! And then he looked at the vent and pointed to me. "Wednesday Dad" He nodded. I thought he pointed to the ceiling, but he got upset when I kept guessing things having to do with up. Then I guessed "ONE day?" Yes. ONE DAY. He remembered the doctors told him he'd only be on the vent ONE DAY, and he was indicating 3 days have gone by.
So I had to tell him about the atelectasis. Then he fell back into an unconscious state. I don't know if he was sleeping or it was the drugs, but he was out.
I've been scared the CO2 levels had been so high, he'd have some brain damage. That looks okay. Which of course will make any decision to take him off the vent that much harder. Catch 22.

Thanks again for the pixies. I can't tell you how much it means to have people I've never even met caring that I'm hurting. Bless you all.
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